@blmoon I was thinking that! “What are they saying?” probably no real mystery except I just want to be back in Hawaii! Ha! The whales called me back

I’ll admit I think all the men I’ve dated were sexy! A man, willing to do his best to be open and be vulnerable, is sexy! Of the significant relationships I’ve had, Taurus and Capricorn rank highest in sex appeal. Both have a raw uncomplicated, earthy hot sensual thing that’s...wow.

@alien_bayliann, in what context did you hear about this 0 physical plane?

Hi !! Please give me a reading. Please help me !! I just need some help regarding my love life. I am a Cancerian woman and my husband is a Taurus. We are going through a lot lately. Like lot of stress regarding buying a new house ,changing his job etc. This has taken a toll on our sex and intimate life. Its becoz of him we are not doing it. His health issues and stress are a factor also. I am getting frustrated day by day. What's going on? I can't really understand. I want intimacy but he is not giving it. He was not like that before,It all started after buying a new house and his job change. Other wise he is a very affectionate person. We are looking forward to have children in future. Will this situation ever change? Will I be happy with him? Will our intimacy improve? When shall I become a mother? Help!! My D.O.B- 22 / 7 / 1984 My husband's D.O.B- 30 / 4 / 81

Yes, I would. My whole world is changing all around me and my mind is becoming blurry. I'm uncertain about my near future, I'm very worried. Please help if you can. Thank you!!!!!

@watergirl18 Was just so thinking of you! I remember spirit gave you a pretty definite reading for three months and wondering if you were getting through October . I'm going through something similar with odd dreams that put me in the past! Usually my dreams connect with something recent so they make sense but lately they had me stumped as it was as if I was in that emotional state from a past trauma. You know when you wake up heart pounding it's so real. AND oddly since it was so far back in the past (Chicago years) my interaction with the people in the dream was like it was THEN. THAT really had me stumped because my mother in law was in one bad dream last week and it made no sense why because later in life we had a very good relationship and she apologized for early crap. We had a very loving bond later and I loved her very much. So WTF. I remember Spirits advice to you that any revisits may feel like the past but not to worry that it was not at all a real repeat. I had some other instances as well where I felt a worrisome "is this a possible mistake repeat about to happen? But so far it's not and I actually end up realizing just how much I have changed. I prayed and meditated a lot. So far the response I've gotten is I'm getting traumatic revisits as part of my determinations to really heal. I was told that at a Cassadaga service awhile back that I was healing down to a DNA level. I can see were when you are thick in the middle of traumas or wounds that when you are surviving and moving forward you don't spend much time dwelling on it. Anyway, I sure can't wait for November to get here! So far my description for October is "uncomfortable". Last night I dreamed again I was in Chicago, my husband was there and I was wandering the ghetto! Just weird. I was in nasty houses, I met nasty people...just moving a lot and wandering. Sometimes it was scary, sometimes I was looking for my husband who seemed to have been lost somewhere. And at the end of the dream I find my way out of the ghetto and near the train that separates the side of Chicago that faces the huge Lake Michigan I was trying to tell someone why I didn't get off the train and just walk to the lake instead of taking a left and wandering into the Ghetto. I said if I walked towards the lake I was afraid I'd be trapped. HOW odd of a thing to say!!!l? Have no idea why I was in the freakin ghetto. And it was very real. Although, I have been listening to a lot of Everlast lately.....I love Whitey Ford...his music is so gritty. It's very poetic. Very real. A lot of my writing gives a voice to people without a voice. Oppression is a complicated thing. Anyway, I almost dread going to sleep! I am still going to sleep healing music. My best advice for you is to not believe any of it is real. Luckily, I had a friend I could vent with after I had that dream. I calmed down and it passed but I can see how you would feel low. Maybe you are doing some residual pain cleansing yourself and if you just hold on and let it pass there is a payday at the end of this UNCOMFORTABLE month! I will check in if you just need to talk. Otherwise forget the message boards here right now. Lord, too much desperate for a man problems for me! Hang in there!

So what exactly are you having trouble forgetting about this guy, since it all seems to be disgraceful treatment from him? Are you holding onto a slim hope that he will suddenly turn into a considerate person - because that is not going to happen as long as you allow him to get away with behaving like this. You have to realize that you are responsible for how any other person treats you. Are you afraid of losing the loser if you stand up to him? You need to raise your self-esteem if you think this is for any reason acceptable behaviour in a relationship. He is just using you for sex and money.

@TheCaptain Thank you so much for your reading. I really appreciate. He is a very loyal man. He loves his family more than anything else but the stress is killing him. I know I can be a bit demanding and clingy at times but from now on I will keep your suggestions in my mind. Thanks a lot TheCaptain .

Don't stay with this person just because you are afraid of being alone. That will never have a good ending. You can make new friends if you try hard enough. If you want change in the relationship for the better, you have to change for the better yourself. You cannot change anyone else. Do your best to be loving and well-presented and attentive to his needs - and then if there is no good response, it's over.

Your genuine twin flame does not disappear/run out on you. They simply cannot do that once you have met. This guy simply got cold feet and wasn't ready to commit.