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Mafaida, this is a mysterious union - your relationship can be hard to fathom on both sides. On the surface, you can expect an easygoing and pleasurable relationship between the two of you. Your involvement goes far beyond simple pleasure, however, being enigmatic even to the two of you yourselves. A deep magnetic pull often draws you together, and once the relationship is formed, it may be difficult to modify or to break apart. Feelings can intertwine subtly and compellingly to create bonds of loyalty, but also of dependency. The two of you will often mirror and act out each other’s feelings without being aware of the process. Egos can dissolve here, boundaries can blur, and individuality can fade. You are a person full of great sensitivity (sometimes over-sensitivity), but also great mystery. Your partner is a secretive, private person who will not always share himself with you, nor you with him. You will have to accept this fact if you want the relationship to continue and try not to pry or push him to open up. Let it happen in its own time.
A love affair here will tend to be passionate and binding. The two of you may not realize it, but you may have staked a claim to one another, and with that claim, have taken on a huge responsibility. The mysteries of sex, love and relationships in general can unfold here like an enchanted panorama that has you both under its spell. Even when trying for an analytic objectivity that would explain the process and plumb the depths of the mystery, either or both of you may pull back from the shock of recognition, falling instead into the unconscious stream of forgetfulness and abandon. Marriage may hold a more objective orientation, but getting lost together can remain a constant activity.
Friendship would have a similar magnetism, but can often replace the total involvement of love and marriage with a healthier empathy. You two could maintain a certain objectivity and individuality as friends, while still being closely attuned to each other’s feelings. There would be more awareness here in friendship; the relationship’s mystery is better understood and to an extent more consciously explored. Years will be required however for this to take place, but the wonder will never completely fade, nor would the enigmatic nature of the relationship ever be fully exhausted. To the end, long periods of quite ordinary daily interaction will be dotted with magical moments, unforgettable in their charm and illumination.
Advice: Retain your individuality. Understanding won't always be fully possible. Love will ask few questions and give even fewer answers, so surrender may be required.
