You think I should stop contactiing him? When I dumped him I didn't contact him for 3 weeks and he didn't plead for me to take him back like before or did he try contacting me. He even said once, I am not going to beg you to take me back. When I called him today he said 'I don't want to talk to you" and cut off the call. I tried calling back and he rejected my two other calls.
Is it normal for a Cancer male to do that? He hasn't heard from me in 3 weeks but he didn't chase me either.
I ask, how long does one have to wait? You say cancers can't let people out of their lives but I feel he has already.
Before we broke up and I was thinking if leaving him he wanted us to be friends and i said no.....................he said well I will send you an email anyway. I said I will block you etc....You will always have a special place in my heart etc................
When I broke up with him, he said remember I walked away, if I was happy he was good with that???????
From your experience, did your cancer man/men go off and find other people to replace you?
I am really pissed that I allowed myself to get sucked him. I pushed him away because I wanted to avoid all this drama. Now I am in it.
My relationship before this one was abusive and I was almost killed by my ex ex twice. I am still a little messed up about getting into relationships but I took the plunge again.
The last 3 years I have had depression on and off. Since arriving back in Australia my depression has gotten worse. The situation with J hasn't helped. It just reinforces the things I feel about myself. I am a good person and have harmed no one. I am always ready to help someone out without wanting anything in return. All through my life I feel like all I get in return in hurt and pain. I have some really close friends but they can't help me. I am seeing a shrink but she isn't much help. I am trying so hard to think positive thoughts but I can't seem to escape the pain.
I am just really tired and worn out and I feel like dying. It's not normal to think about ending your life day in and day out.
I know I will meet someone else. I dont want to put tickets on myself but i have 5 other people who are keen on me. My heart is with J. Why would I want to be with someone who makes me feel like this? I do.
What gets him to contact me is if I threaten to tell his mother that he is gay. That really gets him going. I have used this threat once and he blocked me from facebook. That was well before we broke up. this is driving me nuts. Is there anything I could say to him before cutting him off?
thank you again for your post.