Beautiful developments Love this thread too, cheers! (I am too busy dealing with my exams previously, had a great time catching up)

I need to refine his words because Arcam do make a lot of sense. You need to be honest (i.e. sincere) but do channel his feelings toward sympathy and not anger or hatred. Glad that i am of help. Good luck

yes Flowsco, you definitely made a great deal of sense back there.

LoL, i do have a little comment on quenkath's words. Well, our intensity is pretty much a double edged sword. We will do anything, yes that is true but if things doesnt go our way..... it can get really ugly. The emotional intesity of affection could turn into hatred.... or sadness. A wound so deep that will last a while

You are very welcome anytime

That is really an interesting story u have there. I am just wondering what is it that both you and your hubby enjoy doing together? Do you guys have a common hobby or something. Well, i suppose there must be something else that make up for the communication gap is there?

To flowsco and arcam,

Well ... as much as i would like to applaud arcam's deep insight, i think arcam might have forgotten an important point. In my opinion, if you have spent enough time with a libra, I am sure that all those challenges will definitely come across as a clear message that you are trying to develop the relationship to something much more than friends. I am pretty sure that any blockhead will get that eventually. Those indicators may really come slow from a libra and that is the challenge to scorpio.

And to the scorpios, what started off as a challenge may really end up as deeper affection towards the libra as you get to know her more (of course the reverse could be true). After which, it become a second nature and it is no longer a chore anymore. It has become an understanding rather than suppression. So you dun feel restrained or uncomfortable anymore, it is just the way it is. This is probably the same scenario like my case where i have been screaming at my sister to tidy up her mess in the room but to no avail. After a while, i gave up since i understand that i can never get her to tidy up. I don't feel angry about the mess anymore, i came to accept it. This is what only time could achieve--understanding. Therefore, what u may feel as a projected unhappy relationship now, you may not feel the same way anymore if you spent enough time with her. Especially so if you really really like her.

As for the development part that you mentioned, i can only say relationship is a risk by itself. But it is a risk that everyone must take. It just so happen that for libra, it takes longer time. I dunno, maybe i will call it a long term investment haha! But of course, investment is a nevertheless a risk regardless if it is short term or long term etc. This is of course is according to the investors' preference. There is no better investment (e.g. short > long), it is just a matter of personal preference. It lies in the beholder of the eye. Hope i am right about this cheers

To quenkath:

No problem. We could always use a little flirting here and there. It definitely liven up the mood a little. Haha!

You have a aries moon with a scorpio sun ..... there seems to be some internal struggle on your side... haha. That is beside the point of course.

So, i am going to do a rough reading without any books or some sort, since i am not at home. It is a pretty good match i would say with plenty of water elements here except for your fire aries and his aquarius rising that is air. I would say that this boy of yours will definitely appreciate this relationship more than you do as your rising and sun sign reaches him deep to his moon sign and sun sign on the compatible level.

For you on the other hand, his rising sign might earn you a little ... irk towards your sun sign. However, you can be rest assured that if you know him well enough he is definitely not what he appear to be. As long as you learned how to read below his mask, the ascendant sign is hardly an issue. Furthermore, his ascendant sign will appeal to your fire aries moon anyway. So in anycase, i can see a pretty synergistic relationship here.

I agree with you as a scorpio Arcam, we seems to enjoy challenging relationship than an easy one. If the mystery is too easy to solve then the magic is lost. Yeah man.... Flowsco moderation is definitely the keyword to managing libra-scorpio relationship. It makes me want to laugh out loud when you mention this boy of yours. He sounds like a cat or some sort. hahaaha.

Scorpios are feeling creatures. You have to reach him in the emotional side to explain your frustration, sadness of dealing with his negative traits without making it sounds like its his fault. If you can make him sympathize with your feelings, i guess you are good to go. Make him feel that if he leave your side, it will be doing you a favor instead of staying by your side. Our intensity could work both way, we sympathize with equal intensity as we love and hate. I know it sounds sad on him, but that is the way we are. We will go to all extend to please our lover even if it means to leave them. That will be our last gift.

You must be sincere about it too because we will know it if you are not and when we do.... there goes the sting. It will not be easy but best of luck anw.

hahahaaha! I am a scorpio guy. Ok, let me try to answer some of your doubts here. First of all, we are extreme people so that explains his daily contact with you and we love those sort of intensity.

The reason why he acted differently when his friends are around ...is well ....we prefer to be sweet only when the whole world is only known to both of us. We are not the type to praise you in front of the crowd, rather we prefer to whispers words of praise when you are alone with him. So we are kind of different when in crowd.

The reason he left w/o informing you could be due to jealousy. If i did not get your full attention, well i rather not get anyway. Its like all or nothing for scorpios. He left probably sulking his way thinking that you do not need him and maybe that is his way of revenge too. And when u confronted him the second time, maybe he finally regain his control over his emotion and apologizes.

Now, the disappearance act u may ask? ....Well this could be tricky. But as soon as you mentioned his texts abt missing you, i can be very sure that he has not lost his interest yet. Because if I do lose interest, i could hardly care less sending you text like that (all or nothing remb?). If i am right about him, i guess he got a little tired of doing the giving all the time. I suppose he wanted some sort of reciprocation on your side to affirm your feelings. You may want to do the initiative the next time round. Never leave him alone even when you have your friends with you or else he will hurt that he do not receive special attention from you over your friends. Scorpios like to be given special and constant attention especially in favor of others. They wanted to feel that you belong to him only. Your affirmation of affections is very important to scorpios, our intense nature requires an equal amount of reciprocation.

Oh .... Scorpio never speaks their mind. They assume that you should be able to read their mind if you are truly their friend or something more. Anything that is implied makes us happier than anything that is said. We have keen senses and we always know the meaning behind your actions or words. It can be difficult i know, but that is the reason why scorpio tends to have few friends but they are sort of like telepathic friends if you know what i mean.

We always appear cold and unfeeling but downright inside a storm may be brewing. Never trust our exterior. Well, scorpios are creatures that feels more than think, more often than not we feel too fast too much for our expression to catch up that it seems like we are trying to hold back. But actually, we just dunno how to express it, there is too much feelings going on in our head to say accurately wad we exactly we are feeling. And all sorts of feelings come on strong too....

So why not you try taking lead and if he get the message that you really want to spend time with him, that should makes him happy.