Thank you all for responding to my post and sharing your thoughts with me. Its really helpful as I am not discussing this matter with my friends much.
AquaBubbles: "I don’t really think he’s playing games, but the time element is maybe a little different from what you might think is reasonable."
Passionate: "As a cancerian male, it feels to me like he is playing the field, if he truly has a cocky nature around you, he is trying to ignore the aspects inside of cancerians that are hopelessly romantic, he is trying to be a "ladies man" and pull you in by pushing you away."
I think that he can sense my strong will and independence and he is trying to pull me in by pushing me away as Passionate says or it might be that he has a different timing than I do as AquaBubbles says. I am in question marks these days!
Imagine I have given him the "smooth operator" nick name after the 3rd date (when we made out)... he has a way with girls I can see it.
Then again, during the 3 times we've been together I saw that he is a polite guy who has a lot of love to share, but he might not be ready to do so just yet ;). Also I am not sure whether I want a relationship with him until i get to know him. The problem is that he is not around for me to be able to get to know him.
As I have mentioned, recently I got out of a relationship which ended with a separation instead with a marriage (as we and all people around us were thinking). And i am quite vulnerable myself and I am not sure whether I need more emotional games on me now.
And the other day I found out that "my" crab, has also gotten out of a long (4-5 yrs) relationship and things didn't end nicely for him.... so we might be in the same situation...
Also, it turned out we have a lot of friends in common, and some of them told me that he is asking around about me.
I really don't know what to say... I do want to give him a ring and see him these days and I am almost certain he will respond in a positive way, but every time i pick up the phone my feminine pride comes in and I give up calling him :). Then i think: "the hell with everything I cant loose anything" and I pick up the phone again, but the pride comes in again and I leave the phone... and so it goes... on and on....
Have a good day all :). Hopefully we'll sort out our love situations we are in :).
PS. AquaBubbles I don't think that when his first call wasn’t answered the feeling then passed because when we have met he gave me his number and told me that he has called me the other day but I didn't answer. And I explained to him that I don't return calls to unknown numbers (when the call is after 7pm i.e. work time is over) and he understood my point.