Sorry if this is inaapropriate but I would really love some of your insight on this question I have posted elsewhere on this site. I hope you can help me see the right way forward. Sometimes I think this man is confused and hurt by the past sometimes I think he is selfish and uncaring: Thank you in advance.....
met my scorpio on a dating site. He is ten years younger, and has mars in
Scorpio, Venus in Sag and the moon in Taurus.
I had feelings for him from the start but he said he saw me as just a friend.
I said that it was hard to be friends and we mutually agreed to part and to
contact each other only if and when something significant happened.
After 18 months I get a mail from him. I was very upfront with him and told him
that I still loved him and was this wise to get back in touch. He then confessed
to having this dream that had aroused feelings of hidden lust and desire for
All the moves initially came from him and we have been intimate just twice even
though he makes all kinds of excuses to stay over with me.
He has visited me at my familiy's home and invited my friends to dinner with us
at his place.
I gave him the option of endidng things as I wasnt "feeling" him. We would
share the same bed and he wouldnt even try to touch me (I didnt either call it
pride and/or fear of rejection.)yet in his sleep would move over to my side and
He appears not to respect me and seems to prefer spending time with his family
on the phone or going out with his friends. I am always on the back burner and
it is killing my sense of self worth and self confidence.
If he is not into me why is he not ending things? The only thisng he said was
that we had taken things too fast and that we should have a "normal" courtship.
I asked him if we must keep our options open and he said its not the kind of
thing he does when he is in a relationship.
Its almost a week now and although there have been emails and texts there have
been no plans made to see each other. I hesiitate to suggest it as I KNOW
something will come up and I will be left twiddling my thumbs?
Should I persevere or just cut my losses and run?
He refers to his ex as his soulmate but he cant say if she loved him too and he
says he will never take her back cos he deserves better. She left him to take up
a job abroad and was on antidepressants at the time.
Please help me understand this confusing scorpio man.
Date of Birth: 26 January 1967
Time of Birth: 12:13 AM