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What does this mean? please help..
Linda Goodman says
"Unless you're a Scorpio female, the Aries man is as passionate as any woman could ask...."
Does it mean that we Scorpios can love Aries men, coz am in love with one. yes, i really doubt his love for me, and i don't know what to do?
What does Goodman imply there?
RE: Any woman had a positive experience after Cancer man comes bac?
Hun! i can't say he came back, because he came back and left. its all a cycle, and whenever he gets back, its all about sex. so i let him be and moved on with my life, whenever he comes back, i just look at him talking because in seconds...he'll be gone.
Seriously when am I becoming an Eagle??
i am a Scorpio, all my life i have been so. All the characters described about the stubborn scorpions apply to me. At this stage of my life, i keep all my feelings to myself. i cant tell you when you hurt me or when i love you. I have challenged myself to telling this guy i like my feelings because i just can't hold it, I want to be an eagle. can I?
How do i get started?
RE: So confused with this cancer
yeah,you guys are reall y right. i appreciate everything you say. and honestly thats what was in my mind all this time. just because i was always affraid,he would tell me that gals and ladies are not like that. so, i always thought that may be the problem was with me. and i dont have gal friends by me,only my sister and i fear talking to her abt such things. i have male friends all the time,and i tried to consult them,they called this 'injustice at the climax' and i wanted to know how any lady would handle the situation,because he always asks me what is wrong with me,he always says that am too different from other gals. and i didn't grow up in peer groups,my mum is a very strict woman. she always makes me associate with students who are focused on their studies,so i dont have that much experience abt how such things are handled. he tells me that am not soft,guys need soft gals. so, i always thought may be it was my fault.
but now i think i have to let go,and move on. i have missed a lot of chances,many guys have always come along and i said no,because he always gtes jealous when i get close to some one else. so,i even stopped that. the last guy who came along almost fought him.he came with a ring,infront of every one,but i said no,because i had told him abt this cancer,and he got so tense,he was tarus. he stood up and wanted to slap him,but he controlled his temper,went packed his thngs,sold his house and left the country. the last words he told me were ' you dont know what you are' infront of every one. i was left in hte middle of no where,but now i just have to move on in any kind of way.
thankyou guys,i appreciate this and u are so right.
RE: Asking for Libra men to answer
i even dont wanna talk abt these guys. i have just recently seen this guy claiming to be my sis's best friend-but hehe. i dont know how he has managed to get a wife-but every one knows him,he has *******ed all the siblings of the wife friends,and even the women at work. and he talks abt it in public. he told me its normal.
when he goes 4 a party,ohh god.but he finds all this stuff normal,
so,me what i decided to do,is to first question every man who comes along the month he was born and the date. because am so scared abt these guys.honestly-iam. the guy is so new to me,i have never met a libra guy before,but sure i think am now aware.i know men are different,but hey,the libras i will have to watch out. ehh! this guys.
RE: Help with Cancer Husband
am also a scorpio and am in love with a cancer. i know these gys abit. i think,this is not fair,u guys have to settle the htings,think abt the kids. tell his family members abt it,i know they are aware but do it. set up a meeting and make sure u guys leave without a divorce point. u should only work things out,no divorce is necessary here. he has to tell u whats wrong,and u will have to promise to work things out.and u should get back together with yo man,no divorce is necessary. this prob doesnt call for a divorce-it calls for a talk.
u are parents and am sure u do love each other-i dont see any reason to call 4 divorce. go talk to them,and get ya man. dont care what they say,just get the man down,for a talk and nothing else. unlesss,he has some other hidden reasons he is hiding 4m u,this is no big deal 4 a marriage,it can be solved my dear. there are many big things that call 4 divorce-but not this. he has to talk to u first and he's got to be honest.
get him down and ask him how does he feel apreciated and respected-coz u might have been thinking u are doing so,and he doesn't see that. ask him how he wants u to do it.and promise that u will do it that way,tell him to come,and that u love him. do your best. try hard my dear.
i never grew up with a father 4 sm reasons,bt i hated my self 4 the divorce that went btn my mum and dad. and up to now am so affected,all my life is affected,so do it 4 yourself and those lovely kids.
RE: How do you know when a cancer is 'testing' you?
very right,all what u described is in my cancer guy. he says he goes in 4 what he wants,and its true. and i have noticed that he is also shy,but all in all,everything there is right! cancers are like that.
RE: How do you know when a cancer is 'testing' you?
i have loved cancesr in my life-they are only two. the first one and the confusing one am having. but i get a chance to have them,its just that by the time i have them,am already done with the relationship-tired of waiting and just a friend.so,i always tell them am done,that i wanna be alone. but i know these guys need a patient person. and thats what they are all abt,tho u act the right way or not,patience is the only way thru. but not all cancers are gud-thats what i have realised.some have bad personalities despite thier cancer x-ters.