Thank you, Watergirl. With all due respect to your kind advice, though, it's reading advice I was seeking, not necessarily relationship advice. I've got plenty of that. My acceptance and/or patience on the matter is fueled by the place this relationship has for me in the future, not right now.
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RE: Having Trouble Moving On (Help, Captain? Anyone?!)
Having Trouble Moving On (Help, Captain? Anyone?!)
I wrote about this a few months ago, but it's still on-going for me. I had the love of an Aquarius male, and we all know how they are flighty. Our relationship definitely ended very recently, after months of push-me-pull-you from him. I have stopped writing him, calling, everything. The last thing I told him was that I hated him and that I felt that everything he ever told me was a lie. I know some people will string out relationships for whatever reason, but it just boggles my mind that he won't speak to me for weeks, and then out of nowhere he'll show back up saying he's changed and wants another chance. He swears he loves me but he's battling some addiction problems, so he pushes me away because he "can't handle the real world/love right now". This is the only answer he ever gives me. As much as I tell him and myself that everything was a lie, in my GUT I believe that his love is real and that it's still present. I've had psychics, readers, and past-life seers tell me the same thing: he and I are meant to be and I have to be patient; it may be a year or more before we end up together, but then it will be for life. As much as I'd like to believe all of this crap was worth it, and it will pay off in the end, I am starting to become bitter and cynical about love in general, thinking that he may have duped me and played me harder than anyone ever has.
Please, Captain, or somebody, I need my energy removed from this because endless readings on myself are effecting the outcome, i know. Someone read for me and tell me what you see as THE TRUTH in this. I am suffering and need some answers, some conclusion, so perhaps I can move on or truly work on my patience. His b-day is Jan 25, 1976. (Mine, if it matters, Jan 11, 1982.)
Thank you so much!!
Need Quick Advice/Reading
Hi All In short, here is my situation: Last year I was swept off my feet by an Aquarius man I went to grad school with. He lives 800 miles away from me, but we've made it "work" as best we can. However; he soon showed his Aquarian colors: he is hot and cold; aggressively pursuing me, then not speaking to me for days; one day I am the love of his life, the next he doesn't want to be with me anymore. He picks fights with me over nothing at all and sabotages this, then begs forgiveness. I have been patient with him b/c I see more potential in him than in anyone else I've ever been involved with. I have always considered him my perfect match - I just get so frustrated that we have the world in our grasp and he runs away and plays this push-me-pull-you game with me. Well it's been 8 months now since I've seen him last, and we're approaching a stand-still. I tried to show up there as a surprise and got shot down when I was halfway there. Now, he has said he wants to come here next week no matter the state of our relationship. I have a hard time keeping up hope of us working this out so that I can move to be with him and we can get this show on the road. He has said several times he was coming to visit and then cancelled at the last minute, so....I diligently do tarot readings, among other divination, and I have been told that I really should put that to rest b/c I'm influencing the readings with my energy and will. So I'm asking others - what do YOU see about this relationship, him traveling to see me this coming week, and our future - if we have one? I love him with all of my heart, but if I'm fighting a lost cause and beating a dead horse then I want to know now so I can move on with my head held high. If I need to practice more patience and caring, then I will. Please someone help! Thank you!