I think some of you should look for information about narcississts and empaths.
I met "my" Virgo at 13. He was 15. We dated.
I met him again I was 20. He tried to flirt.
We reconnected recently, I am 38.
I am an empath. He has strong narcississtic traits. I met, when I was younger, all kind of narcs. They are manipulators.
To sum it up, I have never fallen for his game (flirtatious ways). I tried to forget my most recent ex while reconnecting with him the virguy. That is why I was quick to go no contact. I wish some would do some psychology research about men who have this type of personality., Nothing romantic or cute about it.
I am not a huge fan of astrology or even believer (sag here) but a lot of virgo guys seem to develop the narc traits. I read tons of stories about them, most sound the same.
At 13, I knew he had low self esteem, i knew he liked bragging and showing off and i knew he was a manipulator. I never liked how he would touch me when i was a teenager, he seemed off and very much all over me. I used to feel violated. It affected all my relationships and my views about dating and men.
I learnt 2 things at 13: men would do and say anything to get into our panties and secondly destroying a narc's ego was the most satisfying thing ever. That is when I knew doing/being everything for a man was not me.