Thank-you for replying to my question, you are right I think, there are some things people like or need to keep to themselves. I think I have a very open mind and yet it bothered me. He and I are both reasonably attractive people who have no problems in the bedroom, and we love each other deeply. I am very inventive and diverse ie: role playing, dressing up, anything I can do to keep our love lives interesting and fun for us both. Having said that, I know I do have some trust issues and insecurities periodically. You have helped me greatly to understand that there are some things that I too am embarrased at first to bring about for fear of rejection, or disaproval.
I just needed another persons viewpoint to help me put it in perspective. You did that for me, so with patience and an open mind, and communication, I hope this will become something we can eventially share or not but I have to accept that that's o.k. too. This is a great forum to interact with others in private, and my first experience was a positive one! Thanks for making it so! I'd give you a hug if I could. Thanks for caring enough to take the time to help me. May good things come your way!!! Willow