Hi Marycarnival!

Thank-you for replying to my question, you are right I think, there are some things people like or need to keep to themselves. I think I have a very open mind and yet it bothered me. He and I are both reasonably attractive people who have no problems in the bedroom, and we love each other deeply. I am very inventive and diverse ie: role playing, dressing up, anything I can do to keep our love lives interesting and fun for us both. Having said that, I know I do have some trust issues and insecurities periodically. You have helped me greatly to understand that there are some things that I too am embarrased at first to bring about for fear of rejection, or disaproval.

I just needed another persons viewpoint to help me put it in perspective. You did that for me, so with patience and an open mind, and communication, I hope this will become something we can eventially share or not but I have to accept that that's o.k. too. This is a great forum to interact with others in private, and my first experience was a positive one! Thanks for making it so! I'd give you a hug if I could. Thanks for caring enough to take the time to help me. May good things come your way!!! Willow

Hi All!

I have never written into a forum before so please forgive me my mistakes. I have finally found what I think will be a lasting relationship with a Gemini man, I am a Pisces woman. I have one question though that no man I know seems to be able to answer to my satisfaction. Do all men look at porn whether online or in mags.? If so WHY!! Especially when they say all is well in the bedroom and the other areas of the relationship. This was also kept a secret from me, after we had talked many times about my feelings of exploitation of women, and my willingness to look with him at tasteful sites.

Any insight would be helpful, thanks, Willow