Oh there is definately something about the virgo man that is irresistable yet at the same time so frustrating. I am a scorpio lady and have known this virgo man for about 5 years now, we met through friends. when I first met him he was interested but I just wasn't at a point in my life where I was looking for a relationship but after pressure from another friend I met him for a date. Bad Idea as I just didnt want to be there. Anyway about 18 months or so ago we got back in touch and a lot of lirting etc went on on his part which I eventually succumbed to but then he does the whole pulling away thing. Since then Its been like push pull and it just totally does my head in. Its so hard trying to not lose the head at him when Its so obvious that hes into me at times but hes just so sloooooowwww to move the whole thing on. He can go days without contact once we have seen each other and Im frankly just getting tired of the whole thing. He can make me feel like nothing one minute and then in the next like a million dollars. I dont know if I'm cut out for the emotional roller coaster, have never met a man like him or even a virgo for that matter before yet I dont want to walk away but know that I am probably going to eventually love shouldnt be as hard as he makes it

My life has hit quite a low for a while now and just when I think its getting a wee bit better something else brings it down. Just wondering when its going to be my turn to be happy to wake up in the morning..

thankyou Captain, i've decided just to leave him to do the initiating of all contact for the time being, seen a side of him at xmas that I wasnt to keen on. I just feel that I'm just someone to pass the time for him when hes bored, I know we probably never be more than friends so time for me to focus on myself and maybe then someone will come into my life that deserves me.

I am a scorpio 26/10, he is a virgo 14/9. I've totally fell for him but he is so confusing! We were getting on great, I was sure he felt the same way about me but when I told him I'd like to be more then friends he backed off. Then he got warmer again and then he goes cold on me again. I just dont know what to think anymore, I know I dont want to feel the way i feel about the situation anymore. Am I better off just forgetting about trying to be friends with him even? I dont have a lot of patience and he is so trying at times am I better just moving on? I have read so much about virgo men and he does semm to be a typicaal one but I feel like my life is on hold waiting for him, Please can someone give me some insight??

thankyou, We have known each other for about 4 years and its only the last few months ive realised just how much I like him. I think being out of the dating/ relationship game for 7 years has made me too cautious and worried am reading to much into it. I was working with kids for about 5 years but will have to do loads of training to pursue that line of work again, so yes i am having to really think and reevaluate my career.

Hi can anyone give me a love reading? There is a virgo i like but not sure wether to wait for him to do the asking or just ask him outright where we stand. Also i got made redundant in december and wondering if there is a suitable job on the horizon. Any help from anyone is most welcome, thankyou