Insight please: I am a 44 yr old Scorpio woman (10/26) who meant (totally by accident) a 47 year Cancer man. It happen while I was spending sometime in Washington DC (my home town - I live in St. Thomas) I had planned to move back to MD/DC with my family and look for employment there; while there I went out with friends and meant this Cancer man who lived on a boat in the boatyard that my friend previously had a kept her boat, we meant at a little restaurant and it was "bam" he came on really strong, he was very much a gentleman and he was handsome and kind - we have a lot, a lot in common.

He called we went out, we became close and for the time I spent in MD I was with him every night all most - the thing is, the first evening that I went to his boat, we had been out and I jokingly said "I hope that you don’t have some crazy ex around here" and he stopped and said "well I want to talk to you about that" - it turned out that he started dating this woman who had (still has) her boat slip parked 3 slips away and my girlfriend I was with when I meant him knows her very well (she seems to be a very successful business woman who broke off from him by texting him a message saying "you cannot support me the way I want" - she is a Taurus) anyway, after he told me this I thought it was pretty weird and I asked him about him going back to her and of course his reply was " no". I did find a card and a picture of her in his draw, also they dated for 6 months and ended in July - I meant him end of August.

We continued our happy times, great sex; great fun with his friends and everyone was telling us how great we were together. I ended up having to come back to St. Thomas (I leave with a very old man (a Sag) - we have a plutonic relationship). I felt so overwhelmed leaving him, he took off of work and stayed with me for 3 days - the last day was intense and we both cried - he cried but he did not ask me to stay and he knows I would have if he asked.

I am back in St. Thomas and I am going back to DC November 2nd - by doing this I will have a great struggle but I miss him and he is so happy I am coming back - but I feel something is off.

I am a Scorpio woman so I do have my own secrets and I enjoy my time alone, plus I also have my own life that I want to keep my own.

Insights please.