Well I havent been married a year yet, this August will be one year..And we have only had *** maybe 6 times since then..:( Of course we work different schedules and never even see each other during the week. We share one day together and always have stuff to do around the house.. I have tried the new things, trying to encourage him, but it doesnt work... Now he has a problem with full function of it all.. He said he will talk to the Doctor about it, but do I really want that.. There are so many things that could go wrong with that..Besides *** isnt why I married him, it was for love... The only thing I can think of is to make time for one another , fully communicate with each other, and not to give up..