Thank you Captain...I know with the astrology synastry it isn't nearly "ideal" but the problems you mention, such as retaining independence, fantasizing, etc.. Those challenges are already present (mainly due to completely different lifestyles), however I think deep down we do have the same goals and dreams.
Do you see us getting closer & possibly constructing a deeper relationship (the kind I desire) that has the possibility of long lasting happiness? Looking at the astrological components, I do feel we could have an amazing working relationship and there is also a karmic feel to it.
Thanks for all your insight - I truly grateful