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Captain some help please
You have given me help before...and now....i am completley lost!!
My husband first left me in March 2011....and for a yr...he and i have gone back and forth. He has left a 4 times....and we had started going to marriage counsling this last time he was home.
It seems like he expects me to take all his crap...but when i am wrong( which i am) he holds it againist me for weeks. WHich makes him do and say things that makes me not even want him not here.
It seems to me since he first left a year ago...he has become more selfish...and which makes me have to step up to the plate even more. He seems less patient with me. Like i am less appricated...when in fact i do more so i dont bother him so much.
Sometimes....i feel like he causes arguements so he can go out.....and either be with another woman...or just be free. Regardless i dont feel taken care of....nor like i am good enough him. Which deep down..i am the best thing that has ever happend to him.
My question at this point....is will he ever be committed to being here in this marriage for a lifetime? Will it be a constint struggle? Will we ever become peaceful ? Will he stop cheating on me? Can we provide the love we both want and strive for? WE love VERY Strongly...but fight sooooo Viciously! It takes a toll on the both of us?
Thank you...i know this is alot......
RE: Captain: Some more help....Please
Captian, do u have any suggestions on how to approach our past, or how to come to come to understanding? We can talk, come to a middle ground....but then sometimes his attitude so is mean that i can't talk to him. And then we do this for about a week....a VERY long week!
Any suggestions that u have are well appricated
Captain: Some more help....Please
My husband and i had seperated for about 5 months, and then he came back hom in AUg. When he came back things were wonderful.....Now i see the same patterens as before he left. Getting very frustrated by me, secrets, angry.........I am worried that he is wondering if this is really the place he wants to be? I love him very much, but honestly it was a very hard time before he decided to leave,,,,,,,,we were always fighting. I just dont want this to happen all over again!
WHats going on???
Capitain: Question PLEASE
I am a very sexual person, and latley my husband has been making excuses, or just not all the interested as he use to be.
Now, he is under alot of stress, i will give him that. But my question is....am i just tooo much for him, or is he cheating me?