Hey I recently just heard from my Cancer man after three months of silence.
We both fell in love with each other at the time but went separate ways in our life for complicated reasons. It was his choice to stop talking to me and it broke my heart since he was the first person I ever loved. A week ago he started talking to me again and apologized for what he did telling me he had to disappear for a while to make some changes in his life but he never stopped loving. I understand crabs do this. Now he is being distant again and I don't want to repeat what happened but I have tried reaching out to him and either he says he is working or doesn't reply. What do I do? I want to move on if he is trying to do this again?

Hey I recently just heard from my Cancer man after three months of silence.
We both fell in love with each other at the time but went separate ways in our life for complicated reasons. It was his choice to stop talking to me and it broke my heart since he was the first person I ever loved. A week ago he started talking to me again and apologized for what he did telling me he had to disappear for a while to make some changes in his life but he never stopped loving. I understand crabs do this. Now he is being distant again and I don't want to repeat what happened but I have tried reaching out to him and either he says he is working or doesn't reply. What do I do? I want to move on if he is trying to do this again?

Can this work or do they need to be with their partner constantly? I’m a Virgo female confused by Cancers motives. Tends to disappear. How loyal can this be?

@thecaptain, I'm sure your right but we really haven't said we are in a relationship. I don't understand why he is reaching out to me now. He pulled me out of a very bad relationship months ago and I thank him for that. We started out as best friends and realized we cared about each other later on. Now I feel alone and confused all over again. I'm angry because he never was this way. Why does he want to control me now?

Thank you. I just was confused what those wounds were. I don't think they have to do with me but it's just he just recently contacted me a week and a half ago and is repeating this nonsense after three months of silence. I want to keep the door open but I also I'm not sure why his past is being put on me if he loves me. We were best friends three years before this.

@thecaptain I want to say something to him to end it but at the same time Ive told him I don't want to get hurt by him. He says he just can't talk.

@moon50 That's great your a cancer too lol.

@thecaptain Im so sad. I was doing well.

@thecaptain Yea we both wanted to date each other but it wasn't good to at the time. I had just gotten out of something bad and he had some other issues to deal with.

@thecaptain We just always miss each other because our lives our always in different spots but when we come together it's amazing.

Ps. I don't think what I said was wrong but I can't help but think he was trying to let me go again. So confused.

Im a virgo. My cancer I used to love contacted me after three months. He told me he still loved me and we talked for a few days. Now that I have let my guard down and he wants nothing to do with me. We have a history and he pulled me out of an abusive relationship. I know cancers need space and that they can be addicted to work. He used to text me all the time on the road but he became distant again. For the first time in knowing him I went off on him. He didn't take it well and I'm afraid it's forever over. Why did he contact me again? I don't know why he is trying to hurt me again after I told him he had broken my heart. I was trying to heal. When I was almost over him is when he contacted me. I love him and I hate how I phrased what I felt but I felt he didn't care. Will he contact me again? I apologized.

Can this work or do they need to be with their partner constantly? I’m a Virgo female confused by Cancers motives. Tends to disappear. How loyal can this be?

@thecaptain We just always miss each other because our lives our always in different spots but when we come together it's amazing.

@thecaptain Yea we both wanted to date each other but it wasn't good to at the time. I had just gotten out of something bad and he had some other issues to deal with.

@moon50 That's great your a cancer too lol.

Thank you. I just was confused what those wounds were. I don't think they have to do with me but it's just he just recently contacted me a week and a half ago and is repeating this nonsense after three months of silence. I want to keep the door open but I also I'm not sure why his past is being put on me if he loves me. We were best friends three years before this.

Hey I recently just heard from my Cancer man after three months of silence.
We both fell in love with each other at the time but went separate ways in our life for complicated reasons. It was his choice to stop talking to me and it broke my heart since he was the first person I ever loved. A week ago he started talking to me again and apologized for what he did telling me he had to disappear for a while to make some changes in his life but he never stopped loving. I understand crabs do this. Now he is being distant again and I don't want to repeat what happened but I have tried reaching out to him and either he says he is working or doesn't reply. What do I do? I want to move on if he is trying to do this again?

@thecaptain Im so sad. I was doing well.

@thecaptain I want to say something to him to end it but at the same time Ive told him I don't want to get hurt by him. He says he just can't talk.