How about forgetting both the guys and just concentrating on yourself for now. You dont need to jump into another relationship or whatever with another man so fast. Definitely dont go back to the libra. Stay friends with the Cappy for as long as it takes for you to heal from your past relationship and for you to find yourself again and for you to figure out what it is you want from your life and from a relationship. No need to hurry! when everything is just right and meant to be then there is usually no fear. Just the fact that you are scared should tell you something!