Thank you Coona. I really needed to hear that. I had a close relationship with a gemini man. I always hoped that it would end up as something more. But in the end he withdrew, telling me he didn't feel the same way even though we did everything normal lovers would do. I finally realized that the only person he was pleasing this whole time, was himself. He always wanted me to be there for him, but he was never with me when I needed him the most....

Cancermen, I am in the exact same situation as you, having been with a gemini for 8years as a "close friend". He always made sure to keep me in his life, inviting me to all his social functions. I was never really clingy to him either, which was probably why he felt at ease around me.

I got tired of waiting for this social butterfly so recently I asked him how he felt about me. He told me that he "thinks" he doesn't feel the same way about me as I do for him. But funny thing is when I asked him how he would feel if I started dating other guys he said he "might be jealous". I really think gemini's have a hard time making up their mind. They will have trouble committing before 30 years old...only time when they will want to settle down is when they realize everyone around them has gotten married! They are just outright afraid of commitment!