Thanks all of you for your advice - really do appreciate it. But now I'm more confused - Cancerstar is saying leave him alone - virgoperspective is asying send the odd text...don't know what to do for the best...

Thank you Maygoodcometous for taking the time to write such a detailed helpful reply. I'm going to re-read it a couple of times.

I'll let you know what, if anything happens. It was especially helpful that you said continue to text him - I have sent a couple to say more or less whatyou said - and I really didn't know if I was doing the right thing, maybe dignified silence to leave him to come to me would be better etc. But I'll follow your advice. Thanks again x

Thank you very much for your reply - am new here as well. What you said was reassuring, and I'll try to keep it in mind. I miss him so much and feel terrible about the whole thing. One more thing - as a Virgo I find it really hard to have 'unfinished business' and am telling myself its def over because to me no contact for a week means I don't want to know. I've heard that Canceraians can withdraw for long periods of time - perhaps I'll just assume its that?

x

Sorry it's another Cancer topic! I'm Virgo and have been seeing a great Cancerain male for a few months - until two weeks ago when we had a huge fight. It was my fault - although I had my reasons - and I humiliated him (in his eyes) in front of his family and friends. I'm very, very ashamed of it.

I've seen him once since then - to apologise, we had a quick drink and I left. His parting words were he couldn't choose his friends over me. I said I would never expect him to. We texted each other later to say we missed each other - but thats it. He won't reply to my texts and I've heard nothing else.

I really miss him. I know Cancerians feel things very deeply - do you have any advice about whether I should hold my breath - or do you think he's gone for good? Thanks for your advice.