I dated a cancer. She stated first off that she didn't want a serious relationship. But as it moved along she talked about transferring colleges, traveling to Europe this summer with me, said she loved me, that she was deeply in love with me, that I was perfect for her, and that I love her for her.
Later on she wouldn't tell me if things bothered her ( i know now more about cancers to know why). But she blew up on me and said it was over. She said I was being pushy and didn't let her have her life (I asked about her emotions, in a not pushy way but for cancers I know how it was, and she always chose to talk with me so we equally spent too much time with each other). I always asked her if I need to stop something and she always said no our relationship is good.
But when she broke up with me she said that she no longer loved me and I did not love her in the way she wanted to be loved. That contradicts what she told me, and you can't just stop loving someone like that. Did she lie or does she really feel that way? And if I can win her back how do I do that, do I say I was wrong and I will respect you so much more and give you time? What do I do?