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I am torn over two men in my life. I love them both and don't know what to do. One is "T" and the other is "j". Please and thank you!!!

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Thank you, this really made me feel alot better, this is true, i have been feeling badly about him, but I need to just let it go and let it be. It's going to be hard but in the end, i will feel better for myself. You are a good friend to take your own time out to help people feel better and to give them answers they are looking for. I have been blessed to see who he really is before it was too late, and I am very happy for that. This has helped me to let go of him as a lover, But it's hard to forget him as a friend for I thought I really had a friend in him which I miss very much. I guess I miss who I thought he was, not who he really came out to be. I guess I thought I meant more to him. But if I really meant something, he would have never let things get and go as far as they did. He still had time to stop it, but whats done is done, and I need to heal. Its just so hard.

Yes, I feel I've been isolating myself alot lately from friends and going out. I seem to only wanna be around my family lately. I just get so emotional at work when I see him. I don't want to be with him, cuz I know he is no good for me. So I don't understand why I get so upset. He claimed he was making it work with his children mother, nd thats why we stopped hanging out. But now it seems he is trying to get with this girl at work. He is so disgusting to keep doing this to his childrens mother. I feel that I have let myself down and that I have lost my dignity for giving myself to this person when we were seeing eachother. Im thinking thats why I get so upset. I feel so embarassed when I see him.

Hii Elthemoth, Thank u, I know its abit late, for i havent been on. I've just been so emotional and depressed over this these last few days and have no one to talk to about this. I don't know why I am letting this bother me soo badly. I just feel so lost and weak over this. I get sick to my stomach at work when he is there. I just feel that I don't know how to get around all this.

thank u so much, this did help me alot. I want him to be with her and his children most definitely, and know that he has nothing to offer me for I have goals and accomplishments in my life and he doesn't. Why I cry over him, only for the loss of the friendship I guess and the thought of feeling that he never cared or feeling used by him. I work with him, so Its just really hard to see him. I been out of work, but just really nervous to go back bcuz i know hes there. Thank u so much, lots of hugs to you:)

Hi EIAI, I am sorry to bother you, but If u dont mind in giving me a reading, I would truly appreciate it. I was seeing this guy who had broke things off with me, a few weeks later he came back, we started seeing each other again, things went further, and than he has the nerve to tell me, I have been trying to work things out with my childrens mother so we cant see each other anymore. I played it cool, but it truly hurts as i feel that he used me. Can u please ask the cards what he thinks of me now? did he loose all feelings and respect for me? does he hate me because he messed up while trying to work things out with his Ex(even though thats his fault)? Thank you in advance,

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I actually was with a virgo man for 10 yrs. married 5yrs. I recentley wanted a separation due to having so much stress with work and school, and not really giving any of my time to my virgo. no matter what he always understood that work and school was important to me so if it meant i was always busy, he understood. its been about 2 months and during that time i started to see another person(scorpio) who is someone i've known for about 2yrs. and learned that he is nothing but a jerk. Anyways, my virgo doesnt want to let me go and agreed that he will give however much time i needed and that he will wait for me cuz he loves me so much and will do whatever it takes. Virgo men are suppose to be controlling, but not my virgo, he lets me do whatever, and make whatever decisions cuz he knows i will always go with whats best. I miss my virgo man becuz honestly, he is such an amazing person and always wants me to be happy no matter what. we have a great life together, and i was crazy for being so confused and almost letting him go. But i have realized that he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. When i asked for readings on both guys, most of the time, i was told how adorable my virgo man was. And yes, we give eachother plenty of space, and there is never any jealousy. we actually make a great team. I am a virgo as well and think that 2 virgos go very well together. Hope this helps, and best of luck:)

captain, this guy is such a jerk, he was using me the whole time, and while that, he comes and tells me that he has been back with his kids mom. I am so done with him, better to learn now than when it is too late. Never again will i go there with him.