Thank you very much for your input. Interestingly enough, I did tell him I'd liked him (sent him a note) a couple of months back but he didn't respond. Says enough really. But there's still part of me that feels he's settled into the relationship with his gf because it was the safest/easiest/laziest option. Not to say he doesn't love her. Either way, if he wants to say anything to me he knows where to find me.

Thanks again for sharing your thoughts : )

Hi, I wondered if anyone could give me some thoughts on this spread I did for myself. To be brief, there's a man I very much like (and who I know has feelings for me on some level) but he's already in a relationship (I was unaware of the fact he had a gf at the time of developing these feelings so it's not a case of me going after someone who's already attached). Nothing has happened between us, my logic tells me it won't, but deep down it's hard to shake these feelings I have for him as I've always felt something should and could have happened there.

Anyway, I did a relationship spread but tweaked it slightly seen as though we're not actually in a relationship. used RWS

Where are we now? - Queen of Pents (I had a hard time interping this as a situation. I thought perhaps it could mean were "we" are at is nowhere as this card could rep his girlfriend. I've felt she's been represented by the QoP in previous spreads).

What is causing us a problem? - 2 of Cups (Again, the prob is that he's in a relationship. So, that's a prob for me but is it a prob for him? Possibly, if he doesn't really want to be in it).

What are we not respecting? - Knight of Cups (true feelings?)

What we need to express? - Ace of Cups (again, our true feelings?)

What are our options? - Page of Cups (to begin a romance?)

Where will we go from here? - Lovers (the need to make a choice?)

Any other thoughts would be much appreciated : )