In this case, I don't know. I'd love to believe in love at first sight, but sometimes that can work against people. I used to take many risks in love, when I was younger. Now, at 30, while I have a boyfriend, and I love him with all my heart, I think that it can be dangerous. You give your heart to people, then have it broken. Then you heal, give your heart again, and the cycle continues. This can really be dangerous to a person's psyche, and you may become disillusioned after a while. I know that in real life, I have.

Hmm, I would say any combination of air sun/water rising would be great for you. Maybe Libra/Pisces or Aquarius/Cancer would be great, just as examples. You would really have to take note of the man's date of birth, including the year and the time of birth to get a true picture. You also have your other planets in your birth chart (and his) to see how compatible you are (or can be).

But if there's a Capricorn with an Air rising or a Water rising, this could work too.

What is it exactly that you would like to know more about Scorpio? Its fashion habits, the way it interacts with other people? Which other signs it should be with? Maybe that it really is quite stubborn--believe me, I'm a Cancer with a Scorpio rising that I like to think is strong, so I can be very stubborn. Anyway, I'd like to help if I can.

I think in this case, the best thing you can do is give him some space. With him being a Libra, it's kind of hard for him to commit to the long term because he's 'weighing his options', so to speak. I know this is going to be short, but give him some space for a time to let him decide. If he chooses you for sure, let the waves roll and enjoy the time with him (even if he does need some space--I'm quite sure all men do). If he decides you're not the one, then you'll have to roll with that too--and move on for someone who is so in love with you that he'll instantly make you his.

I can contribute a little something to this development. I'm a Cancer woman who's been with a Gemini man for four years this November. One thing in particular that's been bothering me about him quite a bit:

Whether or not we ***, he's practically always asking me (accusing me) if I've been with (of being with) another man during our time together. Now I find this quite annoying since I've been faithful to him ever since we started seeing each other. The kicker is, for a few months or so, HE has NOT been faithful to me, and been with another girl in addition to me. (Worst part is, it was someone I knew from junior high school and had somewhat been friends with)

Now, half the time when he asks me these things, I have to point out to him that I'm not the one who cheated--he did. Why I stayed with him during this, I have no idea. Maybe I was holding out hope that that girl would lose interested or my b/f would lose interest in her. I guess I was right because he hasn't been calling her, and she hasn't called or been around since.

Things will never be the same with him, but at the same time I'm lucky I haven't lost him. I think he's over her now, and even through this hot mess he's still declared that I'm the 'first' woman in his life. (Kind of like the one he'll walk the ends of the earth for, or some overly dramatic thing similar--but it's sweet, you know?) I mean, I have been completely faithful to him, I have given him space (because as a Cancer, I understand about needing space--I need mine as well). I try to be there for him emotionally when he needs it, and I love talking with him. Sometimes I wonder how on earth I managed to keep him in my life, because he can easily dump me if he so chooses, or am I giving myself too much credit?

I have a question for you guys. I'm a Cancer sun (July 13, 1978 at 4:53 PM or 16:53 in 24 hour time) with a Libra moon, Scorpio rising, and Leo Mercury. My b/f is a Gemini sun (June 19, 1957, unsure about the actual time of his birth, but put noon) with a Pisces moon, Virgo rising, and Gemini mercury.

The question is this: Every time my b/f and I get into blows or even just talk about things, I get the last word and/or manage to outwit him in some form. (With his Gemini Mercury, mind you, that is the same as his Gemini Sun) Why is this? This is something that I just plain don't get since somehow I feel like I'm stupid whenever I'm around him (just coz he's a Gemini to my Cancer).

Anyway, let me say that this post isn't totally irrelevant because I'm talking about my b/f--his Mars and Venus are in Cancer like my Sun and Jupiter are.

Hey, I just joined Tarot forums myself so I'm new here. I was born on July 13, 1978 so obviously I'm a Cancer sun. But I also have a Libra moon and a Scorpio rising. I've been interested in astrology ever since about 2003 or so, so I'm always interested in sun/moon combinations and romantic compatibility with signs other than my own.

Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read this, and if there are a few things I can learn more about myself than I already have, please don't hesitate to tell me.