Thank you for the quick response. About connecting well and hidden issues i was referring to the second guy the one i believe i feel more strongly about.
He seems to be hurt very deeply about something in the past and hence he seems very hesitant and very very very cautious to me right now even though i know him for quite some time now. He is a cancer male.
With the other guy i really don't know..i keep going in circles. My brain tells me that this guy (capricorn) will keep me happy but my heart is with the other one.
I don't know what works out best in the long run for me or if there is someone else around the corner who is my soulmate or something.
Plus i try very hard to make the cancer spend time with me doing things but he usually never wants to do anything outside his home like even go to movies/dinner outside except if it is a party/nigh-out or something. So i don't know how to go about that without pushing him too much