Hello Firefly, how wonderful that you are offering all of us your help and guidance.

I have had strong feelings for a man all year; he says he has feelings for me too, but he can't seem to extricate himself from his ex-girlfriend, who he was with for four years. He is confused about whether they should now be friends or lovers - and needs time to work it out - and so he says he and I can only be friends for now, possibly forever. Will he and I ever be together - and if so, when? If we're only meant to be friends I would like to move on, but it's hard...

Hello, thank you so much for this. Much of it makes sense:

• regarding the man, it has been going on for 6 months. Now he will be spending more time with her (moving back to live with her in a big shared house) to work out how he and she feels, I feel nervous about this but have not told him so. I will do as you suggest and just wait;

• to get the business off the ground I need to do a lot of marketing as you say, but I hate selling myself and the few attempts I've made have fallen on deaf ears, you are right I need to do more.

• regarding where I live (now also where I work) I don't feel 'good' here and never have, been here 3.5 years but have never felt at home and have tried to sell twice but to no avail and I can't afford to sell for a low price. I would like to move though but have no money to do so. I think what the cards are saying is that I have to move when I can? Very interesting insight from you here as I didn't even mention where I live but it's something I've not been happy with for years!

• I have ideas but don't always act on them - I am trying to take the plunge more at present.

I'm sorry the cards were confusing.... I guess what I really want to know is, do this man and I have a future together? Right now it's 50-50 but I don't want to 'wait' if we're not even compatible long-term. Any more insights would be appreciated. But this has been really helpful so THANK YOU!!

Thank you! Let me know if you need any other information from me. Thanks so much.

Hello Andrea Lightgiver - I'm online now, I posted a question a few hours ago if you have time to look at it now for me? I am in London (UK). Thanks and best wishes x

Me again. I hope you sleep well. Maybe tomorrow? If yes, here is my question:

I am struggling at the moment - (1) with a man who says he has very strong feelings for me but feels unresolved with an ex-lover, they separated a year ago but with no closure, he says he has to explore things with her and work out what they are to each other (friends or lovers) before starting something with me. I would like to know what will happen - if anything - and if we are to have a romantic relationship, when & would we be happy together.

(2) career and creative ambitions - I took some time off work to start my own business, and fulfil a creative ambition, but it's not going well (largely through my own fears) & need to decide now whether to go back into permanent work or continue with my plans - money's running out! If you have any insights I'd be truly grateful. I can't sleep!

Hello Andrea Lightgiver. Can you do a reading for me?