My sweet Annie passed in my arms after 20 years om 11/22/09. She was a Siamese, a Scorpio borm 11/9/09.

I now know she is here but I can not see her. There have been many signs including a man with the last name of "messenger" who has oddly come into my life as a friend now. Not romantic at all, just a person who is human. I see signs all the time. I am concerned that I cannot let her go and that possibly I ho;ding her back from Nirvana.

Hold on to your hat but after I talk to someone she tells me what was a lie and what is the truth, I understand it is both of us really tuning in. She also guides me when I ask where something is when it is missing.

i must be careful most people canot understand this and i can only talk to a few.

It would be very unfair to get another Siamese, however I have come to understand she wants me with a protector so she can move on. She has suggested a guide dog as I would not compare them and the love would be equal and this animal would know and be tuned in to the incredible loss. I am traumitized, no getting away from that. The landlord may object, any suggestions ?

What to do with a Virgo.

3 dates all either outside or at my place.

Now I I have confronted the situaion as in your place. I know your not poor.

I know you do not live with someone.

He says it is just messy, how messy ? He said 3 hours to clean up.

This could be a deal breaker if he does not do the 3 hours or fix the problem soon.

I had a boyfriend whose father was off. he said wait in the car I said no.

He trusted me. I went in and saw every surface of the floor to the table in every room covered with papers and some garbage, not a rat fest just a person in need of an objective caretaker.

I was very moved that I was trusted not to judge , which i did not.

If he had hid this from me it would have been worse and I never would have trusted him.

I am in the same boat, but this time it is the one I like and he wil not let me in.

Is it time for the ultimatum ?

V.

Yes. I agree with Golden Hill. There is a fine line between holding on and tuning in to what that spirit was to you , the best qualities. These qualities you must embrace and in this way this entity is never lost. Little things happen, A bump on the head, a sprinkling of water, a car accident that that may seem senseless and then leads you to review something missing, which is needed for your protection. This really did happen to me. I was overwhelmed as to the why after I lost my child of 20 years and then in my shock, I heard , "remember that all those things you miss about me are what you need to develop so we are immortal in our love". Then the accident I mentioned previously revealed a truth to me that i never would have loooked at. In the paperwork was a mistake that lead me to search for something that had been stolen from me. It was very important to my independence and she was right there talkiing, saying "There is someone close to you that has taken something that is yours . I confronted them in front of her grave and low and behold this valuable item was returned to me.

She has passed and is still a watcher, no one can tell me she was not absolutley protecting me even by making an irritating incident ;the accident happen for a reason.

Please understand the energy will not come in human form, that housing for the soul is and was just that a housing. Believe ...........................................................................................................

Always believe and remember it will manifest in ways we are not meant to know.

Scorpio is good for Scorpio.

They definitely lust want what they can not have.

Tthe men are different sometimes, however I have met females who are the rudest people on earth as well.

Cancer is too nurturing and they will take advantage and manipulate you.

I am an earth sign. I had one relationship with a Scopionon and it took years, no chasing, not ever.

Timing was all it needed. The problem was Scorpio protecrts Scorpio and is somewhat incapable of loving another more than their vulnerable self, love or not.

The armor on their backs is there for a reason, stir clear.

Sag. is so kind and forgivingand notices this in others fom my experence. I always like them.

Hereis the rub. Scopio men are generally not forgiving I believe they come in come in two types both sexy. Highly spiritual or almost sadistic as they can kill you as well as themselves with that tail.

Very silently controlling and obsessive about some matters.

I believe I never heard a voice of vengeance as loud as my sister's friend a female Scorpio whom I like very much but this may be do to knowing her since I was a child.

It was so loud and angry I thought my brothers could be outrageous but this was one for the books, will never forget and in my mother's house, (out of control).

They made up but they were not lovers ever.

I recent;y dated a male Scorp. I also take into account he was a pig in Chinese astrology and the baby in his family order. Not good for a middle child who has shared everything already, so ask about this too.

He was a very fat in the middle twice my weight, not normal for Scorpio usually lean especially for their partner.

We had our second date sleepover planned way in advance for 2 nights

Every thing went very well, however he had a hidden agenda to make it 1 night, which I was tuned into but content to stay loose about my own intuitive feelings.

He was a dark horse type of Scopio. A total baby and very rude when it all ended over me taking too long to take off the make-up he enjoyed me wearing. I do not know what that was about. He wanted me to snuggle. I had to do my nightly rituals so I would look like a human with normal breath.

He went cold as if I were a dog who did not come to bed on time, so he actually said at 2AM either leave or come to bed . This was not about *** we already had that twice.

Not into my pleasure at all. A taker and wanted me to pick up dinner out that night.(second date)

I said no ! This is not your birthday . If you would like I will come here the evening of your birthday and take you out , he lives 3 hours away. I gave him a beautiful cake that I planned for a month. he would not even cut into it.

The next morning. (I do not drive 3 hours at 2 AM, angry no matter what.)

He gets up the next morning and says, You should go". "We are not compatible ", well you could have taken a baseball bat and thrown me across the room. Please be careful and guard your soul. They are the most lethal of all the zodiac signs. Try to get all the other info as well , birth year, family order and his birth time if you can, this will give you great insight into how to reverse their poison. I know the*** is great but at what price ?

Help .....

I have to get out gracefully.

Is there any way to do this with a Scorpio.

I feel like I could be eaten alive, bad feelings and it started so good .

Very sad.

His e-mails while he was away just turned my gut from sweet to sour.

i told him to call instead some people just can not e-mail correctly . i get this.

he actually considered canceling our halloween dinner becuase of his schedule returning from a trip.

he has 11/2 days to unpack his things w/o me.

Then he keeps telling me he was thinkinkng on postponement as this was tight timing.

We have not been intimate yet. He wants me to pay for his dinner when I see him and buy him a cake and his birthday is not on Halloween.

Then to top it all off he has me timed to leave on Monday morning as he will have 4 weeks worth of work on his mind. i get that too.

This is ridiculous, however I need a stong voice to tell me something.

I ordered the cake , but did not buy it. Right now i would like to throw it in his face.

I suppose his lust diminished on his trip , he must have been satisfied by someone or he would never consider canceling a date we planned for 6 weeks or say as he did in 1 e-mail "he was counting the days", should I bring this up ? or not worth it, but it is so obvious i want thim to know i know. Sometimes being intuitive sucks.

Dear Scorpio.

I have moon in Capricorn.

Their being is about their work effort/ethic and everything else falls around it.

Tune into this and praise her stable work ethic as much as possible.

That everything was for her benefit then do something really nice for her at work ,praise , praise praise but make it genuine.

Now you can help me:

I am a Virgo and I am at the gate of entering into a sensual union with a Scorpio.

he is returning from a vacation trip and is excited to see me, however keeps telling me to find things to do after we have sex of course as he has committed to 2 nights with me.

It is his 50 th B'day and i do not wan to hurt someone on such an occasion, however i can not deal with hot and cold and i would like to be with him. I just hate the idea of saying nice night hope you had a nice time and since you mentioned to , "make myself scarce on our second day i thought it best i leave completely . I think he is baiting me based on how good the sex is and is full of it. From a Scorpio males opinion should I just ignore his stress talking and performance anxiety or pull away now. I have never ruined a B'day dinner in my life, but this takes the proverbial cake.

Valentina

Dear Scorpio,

I am a Virgo w Virgo rising.

I am horrifically in lust witha Scorpio.

I understand his need to know I will physically be there for him for ***

I was initially turned off by all this focus on ***.

Here goes:

He needs affection, love anyway, so do I .

I lived sexless for 8 years. It was very dysfunctional. Sex is very healthy and we should seek it safely. We are all different creatures of a sexual nature.

i do not agree to accept no ***. I see it alot w people who have children. That was a choice.

I say they come first, however then be honest with Aries that you need this period, it is out there no lies then go if he does not respond. Look for a person who is compatible to your sexual nature who likes kids.

Not easy I know.

This is your joy we are talking about and I want happy people in this world around me.

I really do it is contagious.

One life, *** is one choice that is free no one tells you who you have to be with, like a job or a neighbor, this one is your choice completely make it the best choice for your needs.

Have *** and be safe do not rule out this very important part of your health. i say no way,been there, go after your desires or you will never know, you may even find it was not worth it, butt he burning wonder will be satisfied or you may realize you have deprived your self and you are maturing and setting limits. I will have regular healthy *** it is good for me.

Like touch we die w/o it. I do not believe in this no sex and we have grand kds now our life is full , bullion. You are a creature who is in need or you would not make this imporant first step.

Reaching out and asking around.

Stay Healthy, Lots of touch is so good for the body, and soul, sex is the frosting and it is necessary , sometimes great , sometimes not so great but better there then a dry cake every time.

First let me say.

Gemini's are capable of fidelity and it has much more to do with their core moral values as in look at their father.

Secondely Saggi is not a water sign it is fire and fire and air do mix. Air signs are naturally attracted to fire as it makes for fiery passion.

If you have any rivals look at Aries as the Gemini craves this sign for its magnitude of strength , something they can be wobbly about as they have two voices talking to them all the time.

I knew a Gemini who had to pick betwen a Sag and an Aries , she picked Aries.

The other Gemini i knew, a male also picked an Aries I am not sure who the other was.

Both Aries passed away in their life times as this sign is burns hard, but neither Gemini would have had it any other way.

So for the poor Saggi , I say lok to leo and flatter them, they are much more snuggly and crave sobriety in a mate and letting you let them be the center of attention . They will look up to your intelligence and excellent ability to be a guide and teacher. I love gemini's as friends and I love to talk to them and laugh.

The caveat is they have to really know you forever and be mesmerized to want to give you both sides of their soul,but once given they are smitten and love like any other sign.