Your friend has no clue as to what he wants. Let him be alone for awhile. You should go on as if he is no longer around. If he comes back then that's the time to put your plans forward and let him know. He cares and he would accept but if he is "finding himself", you would not want to be there until he finds what he's searching. Will you wait infinity until such time he does? I don't think so. You must be strong and move on.
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Sorry to interrupt, but I was in a 23yr relationship with my friend just recently when he chose to replace me with a younger 40yr old 2x married with 6 children cashier at Walmart because as he puts it when they spoke it seemed as though she knew him all his life and something inside him stirred up. He also said they are insinc. All they talk about is her problem with her husband, that her husband is mean to the non biological children. He then told me that his needs were not being met and he was unhappy. I asked him did he ask me if mine were. He said why did I not tell him. Hind sight 20-20, I guess when people had been in a long term relationship as mine, one tends to be complasant. I really did not think that he would ever go anywhere except beside me. Now I lost him for good. Is this something that the group could discuss?