Thanks for sharing your experience. It seems that every day i learn and tend to be more patient. Hopefully, he understands that there is someone here Thats trying hard to understand and is willing to work out.

You are right about that. It is draining. I must say. That I have been very patient myself because I know that this guy and I. Once we get our terms straight we get along. Till then. I wil be lost n space.Soon I hope however, I am stil here.

Thank you! Well i as well feel if i don't tell him know my inner feelings as that I ilike him then he won't open up to me... We had a texti not too lng which I hate becasue I rather tlk about it. however, I told him that I was here for him for good and that I wanted to be a friend taht I didn't wnt to jump to something that wasn't going to work out. That I wanted to know him deeply one on one basis that iwasn't looking for marriage rigt away. I wanted to give the moments to meet him, take vacation, dinners and go from there. I told him that if all that works, that the day for us will come. All his was on an email. THen the next day, he said he will read it. THe day after asked him if he had read it. He text back yes. I asked what did he think he said yes good. Nothin else. THen he mentioed some other day. That we had to do something with s living far, (we live and hour away) are schedules are busy as well. However, I said that i was willing to talk about it and dscuss it. I asked if he prefered that i lived closer, he said he wasn't sure. He said he wil think about it. Itsbeen 2 weeks he is been thinking abou it. .haha so patient me is been here. My heart inside is just wating and waitng. Because, I do feel for him. and I know becuase I seem to to be able to see other people, My chest hurts when I think about him. I am deeply in love. He knows i like him lots but i have never told him i love him. I don't want him to run. I just want him to comunicatewith me. He does't call as he used to. He texts more. and then dissappears and text or will call after one or two weeks to say hello. he avoids any serious talk. He rather joke around than to talk anything serious. I know he talks to other people but he says he wants to work it out but is been 6 months since he said it. I wonder how much more i need to do this. Wedon't spent time as i will like. He only comes around 1 a month is more like a long distance dating. Even though we comunicate thourhg email and text all the time. And phones when he feels like calling. Because when I call him he doestn't answer all the time.

He is not at allaffectionate, neither less in public. We spent one time a weekend away in a hotel. and We went down for breakfast while we were in line waiting, I decided to give him a small kiss, he turn his face back opened his eyes wide open. WTH, I felt like crap. So you know who knows if time will tell but when I D K.

Is better to understand, however, if they talk about it. Then we can understand. I am an understanding person. But is hard to understand someone that doesn't express themselves. Because if he says that he wants to work it out then. I would feel he will come out and do something. Therefore, we wait. and nothing. I don't know is too complicated for adults at this stage. I would think, kids will go through this. I think as a cancerian, he likes that we threat him good. His eyes tells me. I have not told him am in love. I can't tell someone I love them because am afraid he will just be like. Whatever, so I threat him as a. special friend. Trying to keep him here and not backing him up. Till when I will try this? I don't know but my heart is too presious to waste it, I don't want to hurt me nor him.

Very hard to understand, me being a Cancer as well, I have been seeing him 8 months, he says that he wants to work it but doesn't do anything about it. He says he going to think about it. i HAVE been patient as well keeping my options opened. But I have never knew I had lots of patience until I met him. Because I trully like him. At times i want to give up and something tells me to stay there. However, at the moment is like I am almost giving up.

Hello,

While I was browsing thru, I fount this post that really interested me. I appreciate your advise Magikal. This way I can understand better My virgo male. I am currently "dating" a virgo male. Is hard to communicate with him. He doesn't talk at all, now I can understand. I have told him how I felt about him. is been 8 months since I have known him. I don't see him as much since he lives an hour away. Its hard for both since our schedues. However, when I see him. I melt. I am emotional cancer as you all know. But when I am around him he brings a balance. He is to his own. However, When i want him to pay attention, I aways find a way, that's when he i in front of me. He is not the biggest talker, He avoids any converstations that can bring him to a decicion making process. He is a clown. and i love that about him. that makes me feel that he feels confortable around me. However, Is been 8 months and I want to take it to a more serious way. So that i can know him more deeply and see if its ok to continue this or start seeing someone else but he doesn't like talking about it. However, he mentioned that we had to do something because of me living so far, I aked to you rather me to move closer? he Said he wasnt sure. However he wants to work it out, but I don't know when, he said he was going to think about it. Hahaha, so with him I am a patient Cancerian. Is funny because I have never been patient with anyone else before. But My heart really tells me that I like. I feel for him like I have never felt for anyone. However, I can't have someone that just dissappears without calling a week or two but then sends a text out of no where at midnight saying good night...hahaha I So i can understand other people. People but at the same time I am not willing to wait years for him to come out and say if he wants a relationship with me or not. So who knows what will happen. Just waiting and see. Keeping as well my options open even though he feels like he is my other half when I am around regardless that he doesn't show too much affection. But his calm way and his smiles just eats me out.