Its been 3 years. We have lived together for one solid year. We've had a few fights that have almost broken us up over the years. We always come out of them feeling stronger and deeper connected to one another. I am a Gemini Girl, he is a Scorpio male.
When i read about how 100% devoted, and sure scorpio men are in love, and how they would do absolutely everything and anything for those they love, I take a pause and exam-en my man harder. He talks about being confused sometimes, and about how there is this one little thing, this one little feeling that is holding him back from popping the question just yet. He tells me he needs time to sort himself out, and understand himself better, in order to be fair to me and give me his honest answer. He tells me he loves me he tells me how important i am to him, and how much he loves about this relationship, but then during a period of us being tense and arguing (we were forced into a long distance relationship) he once he told me 'then how come sometimes i don't feel that kind of love?' This has given me a lot of pause and doubt about how much he does love me. And even though he works to call and visit, and he will tell me, 'all we can do is wait this out, and hope that it works out in the end' , he isn't behaving like other scorpio's in love. Or so i read.
i sometimes put pressure on him, cuz i don't understand what the hold up is, but i try my best to be patient. After all I way rather be with someone who is so sure within themselves that this is what he wants, rather then just following my lead. During these times, i feel shut out, and unimportant to him. (which i bet someone will tell me is me being too sensitive when with a scorpio.)
So what happened to that scorpio 'YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THEY LOVE YOU' charm everyone is talking about? i know how i feel about him, and i know he hasn't made blazing trails out of the relationship...whats going on?