Hans,

Thank you for this reading. I have often found when I do write it does relieve many of my stresses. I am currently dealing with stress and indecision much more than I have in the past and coincidentally am not doing any creative writing at this time. I do find myself to be much more creative than those around me, and generally come up with new, or out of the ordinary ideas and I pride myself on this.

I feel very confused and lost as to what I am to make of myself and how to offer something of substance and value to society. I often struggle trying to figure out what path will lead to happiness. The one of material wealth where I can later relax and enjoy family and traveling without having to worry financially. Or the simple life where I surround myself with people I love, doing things that I love and worry about the financial part as it comes. I am such a planner and very independent the idea of not having my own money or enough is very scary to me. I dont mind relying on others when its an option but I feel very uncomfortable being forced to rely on someone because I couldnt provide it for myself. Giving up control is hard for me and Im trying to work on it, but its very hard.

I want to be an inspiration, I want to create meaning. When I pass I want people to think of me as someone who gave something substantial to society, who had a positive outlook on life and shared that with others. The question is how do I work towards achieving that?

If you could please do a reading on the romantic compatibility on this relationship or any insight it would be very helpful! Would he ever consider moving if he were in love? As a scorpio how do I not scare him off? Thanks so much!

I'm born: November 6 1988 Olympia, Wa 98501

He's born: July 14 1987 Waukesha, Wi 53186

Much Thanks!

If you could please do a reading on the romantic compatibility on this relationship or any insight it would be very helpful! Would he ever consider moving if he were in love? As a scorpio how do I not scare him off? Thanks so much!

I'm born: November 6 1988 Olympia, Wa 98501

He's born: July 14 1987 Waukesha, Wi 53186

Much Thanks!

Thank you Leoscorpion! I think you provided very good insight. I did let him know that I want him in my life but it seems as if he has time for everyone but me. There was slight confusion in the past and he responded that because of that confusion he is trying to navigate things well and is short on time these days. I told him I understood and appreciated his honesty.

I generally do not wait for people, but my intuition keeps telling me to stick it out and show this man that I am a kind, loving person that can be trusted. I believe both of us try to protect ourselves emotionally and sometimes doubt one another. This is something that will only change over time.

I am not opposed to dating other people if the opportunity comes along, but I am not going to seek others out, as I truly want to be with him.

I will continue to show him I am here, with casual contact so he does not feel pressured. (As I know if I push an issue with him it only makes him want to do it less) I will wait for him to contact me as far as us hanging out. I do not want to force him into anything. If we hang out or become exclusive I want it to be because that's what both of us want. I have told myself I am over him but in reality I have come to realize that I just want him to be happy and want him in my life, be it friends, lovers or something more. He knows I want to be with him and him only. Maybe my patience and willingness to compromise will pay off in the end. Something tells me that he is worth the wait. If things do not work out the way I hope then at least this will be a learning lesson for me.

Do you have any specific advice for me as a scorpio as far as patience and understanding my taurus bull?

I appreciate your help very much!

I cannot thank you enought!

Thank you!

Leo Scorpio could you help me as well!

If possible could you do a reading for me? It would be much appreciated!

My DOB: 11/06/1988 (Born in US, Olympia, Washington)

His DOB: 5/17/1983 (Born in Brazil)

I met this man at the end of March and talked with him for a month before we started seeing each other. I can't recall how many dates happened before we were intimate but it was at least 3.At one point there was a miscommunication and he thought I didn't want anything physical and still wanted to see me without that aspect of the relationship. We have since cleared that up and I have expressed my feelings for him and told him that at some point I was looking for a commitment, but told him I wasnt giving ultimatums (as to not pressure him into anything) I just wanted to express how I felt and what I eventually wanted. He said he wasn't quite ready for something serious with all that is going on at the moment. He is very successful and I believe his intentions are true, but I have now backed off to give him some space and now have not seen him for the past 3 weeks. I love his company with or without the physical aspect, I love his moodiness and I love the person I am with him. I truly believe I love him. Although I have not mentioned the L word to him as I think it would scare him off. I am very intuitive and can usually judge a good partner. I have not been intimate or seen anyone else the past 3 months as I have had no interest to be with anyone but him.

Am I wasting my time waiting around for someone who will never even consider me as a partner?

I am wondering if there is any future for us? If so what type of relationship?

I know he is slow to commit and I am impatient (working on this very hard).

Any recommendations for me in this relationship or in my dating life in general?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Hans,

If possible could you do a reading for me? It would be much appreciated!

My DOB: 11/06/1988 (Born in US)

His DOB: 5/17/1983 (Born in Brazil)

I met this man at the end of March and talked with him for a month before we started seeing each other. I can't recall how many dates happened before we were intimate but it was at least 3.At one point there was a miscommunication and he thought I didn't want anything physical and still wanted to see me without that aspect of the relationship. We have since cleared that up and I have expressed my feelings for him and told him that at some point I was looking for a commitment, but told him I wasnt giving ultimatums (as to not pressure him into anything) I just wanted to express how I felt and what I eventually wanted. He said he wasn't quite ready for something serious with all that is going on at the moment. He is very successful and I believe his intentions are true, but I have now backed off to give him some space and now have not seen him for the past 3 weeks. I love his company with or without the physical aspect, I love his moodiness and I love the person I am with him. I truly believe I love him. Although I have not mentioned the L word to him as I think it would scare him off. I am very intuitive and can usually judge a good partner. I have not been intimate or seen anyone else the past 3 months as I have had no interest to be with anyone but him.

Am I wasting my time waiting around for someone who will never even consider me as a partner?

I am wondering if there is any future for us?

I know he is slow to commit and I am impatient (working on this very hard) but are we only meant to be friends, or lovers or is there possibility for a real relationship?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!