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hi cancercan, i'm very sorry to hear about what you've lived through, many people crumble under much less strain. You chose to survive, which made you stronger than before. you sound beautiful. i feel like i'm just whining over my trite little insecurities.

have you, or anyone read 'the law of attraction'? it's not about relationships, it's about how all of our thoughts attract everything that exists in our environment. and the more emotion there is behind the thought, the stronger the pull it has.

hi cancercan, THANK YOU for your s*xy bch lessons!!! I am so insecure with my suality that i'm actually self conscious about wearing matching undergarments. ridiculous !

Just want to reiterate what everyone has said about being disappointed, and not setting your hopes on his showing up when planned.

yeah, and mine is a good cook too. weird. someone should compile a list of all their similarities based on this blog. it would probably be more scientifically accurate than books that are published on the subject!

I see that there are 6 more pages, so i have alot of catching up to do!!

Hi Taureen girl, I'm sooo sorry I haven't had time to come to the forums these last few days; I feel like the stereotypical cancer man who doesn't call back lol. You can write to me at trans7trip@earthlink.net if you really need to talk. I'll be here.

taureengirl, everything you've just said tells me that you're thinking about your situation in a beneficial way. if you can keep that exact frame of mind (having no need for games, maintaining a rich fulfilling life, knowing deep down that he feels for you but you may have to show your sincerity) then i think you may have the secret to a cancer man's heart.

hines63 , i would check your man's id. he doesn't sound like a real cancer man, but maybe more like a gemini?

Cancer men turn all of us into 'chase them' types. It's because they suddenly withdraw from us, making us always needing more of them. Read the other posts; it's all the same story over and over. Just remember to NEVER call him. IF he wants you he WILL call.

NEVER call a cancer guy. They luv it when you don't call. It drives them crazy and they feel compelled to call YOU. I hope it's not too late in your case. best of luck

angel, i think he may have been lying to you when he acted like he was serious, and in love, and wanted a future together. he might have just been saying what you wanted to hear in order to get s.e.x. If you gave it up, he might be thinking your'e cheap now, and therefore deserving of such sickening behavior. The more you you get out and get involved with groups of people and hobbies, the easier it will be to get over him. He is scum, so do not give him the honor of grieving over him. Read "He's just not that into you" and see his ugly behavior for what it is, and don't make excuses for it.

lonelydee, everything you say is the truth. don't give in and call. perhaps you learned that lesson too late. i'm sorry. i used to hide his # where i couldn't reach it, until i couldn't help but know it by memory.

taureengirl, i wouldn't be surprised if he DOES call because i really feel that when a cancer man plays games, it's because he DOES love. but you can NOT call him again. i know exactly how hard it is. especially since we taureens tend to be very direct

whitewings (and everyone else cause we're all more or less experiencing the same phenomenon)

doesn't it seem clear that he's begging you to play hard to get? but then he ultimately wants you to give in to him. you played, which got him to try and get you back, but then you didn't give in, which made him hate you. I really feel that when a cancerman plays games, it's because he DOES love. Whereas other signs play games when they don't really care. i think they hooks us 2 ways: the emotional withdrawal triggers an addiction reflex, while at the same time, deep deep down we sense that his feelings are real. Just my kooky babling to help me cope? Bet KP's bf is a cancer!!