No..its ok..It may have had nothing to do with me at all and everything to do with you..My friend was put in there to get my attention and remember the dream.
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RE: Can you help me figure out this dream?
Dalia..wow..I am speechless. I never post here really..and something drew me to post this dream here when I could have posted it in soo many other places on the internet. I remember the train was crossing a bridge when it crashed BTW.
If you don't mind me asking(and you don't need to answer if your not comfortable doing so)..but your friend..blonde hair..glasses? What letter does his first name start with??..I just want to figure out why God used my friend's image in my dream..and why I of all people would be used to transmit this info for you..this is weirding me out..lol
Can you help me figure out this dream?
I will start by saying that I am really good at helping others with their dreams but I seem to have a hard time with my own..If someone could help me figure this one out it would be GREAT.
Last night I had a dream about a friend of mine whom I have not talked to in a couple months now. He seemed to vanish off the face of the earth..I think he is jail..lol..anyway.. This dream was very bright and vivid with all 4 senses (so I know it was one to pay attention to). In the dream he wrapped his arms around me and told me that there was going to be a change in relationships for me on Thursday. (not Monday..not Friday..lol..Thursday) I asked him what he meant and he said softly.."you will see". Well after that him and I were on my sofa and he was embracing me with his left hand and holding my right hand in his. Then it went to him and I and my children and his child all going on a journey..with him leading the way..like we were hunting for something..he kept saying.."I can't wait for us to get there. You are going to love this."..at one point we were all walking..at one point we were all in a truck..and at one point a train crashed in the middle of the street and him and I lifted it off the road together...then at the end of the dream.(which started to get very choppy) we were all in an apartment..the kids were playing..he was looking for something in a back room..there were little cookies with Hershey kisses candies on top of them..I picked one up and there was a long read hair in it..I pulled it out and ate it..then I woke up.
Sorry this was so long but it is one of those dreams I need to know about..it wont leave my mind...thank you for anyone who has answers.
RE: "In Love" vs. Love. Thoughts?
Again. There is a difference between "in love" and love. At this point it sounds like you are just having problems moving on. You loved him and in return he showed someone else love...yes it SUCKS. But he is living his life and there is nothing you can do but pick yourself up, dust yourself off, do what you need to do to recover from the loss of someone you showed love too..and move on. We will never have ALL the answers we want or need when a relationship ends. that's part of life. It is harder then it sounds..I know..believe me..this exact thing happened to me about a year ago. he broke my spirit and it took a long time to get over it but I did. And I believe that real healthy love is possible again for me..and it will be fore you too.
RE: "In Love" vs. Love. Thoughts?
All I can say about being "in love" VS loving someone is that love is not an emotion it is an action. I know that it took a lot of years and a few experiences for me to fully realize this. When we are "in love" our hormones are raging, we feel all emotional and such. ya know like the "warm fuzzies". This is when we tend to decide if we are going to take action and attempt to love the other person.
So this is what the action of love looks like for me. When I decide to love someone, I put their needs above mine and expect them to do the same for me so it all balances its self out. I focus on making their life better and again expect the same from them. I trust them with my innermost secrets and expect the same from them. I am loyal to them and expect the same from them. I keep my boundaries in tact and expect the same from them. See where I am getting at? Love is a series of actions and choices. When someone decided not to join in, then i know that the love is not there and must move on even if i still feel the chemistry and hormones of being "in love" with them.
Does this help any?