I understand the caution with this kind of reading. There were so many things that you hit right on the head of. Her last couple of years were very tough and it was so hard to get through to her. We have all come together with our own pieces of the puzzle but of course she's the only one with the real answers for our questions. We have a long ways to go but this helps ease the sting a little, at least in the long run. Be brave more often! I've always been wowed by the feedback you offer here.

Thank you very much blmoon. This has helped so much. She was a very private person and it was hard to get her around us often enough to even get her to open up. You validated many things, especially parts of her personality and words. Thank you again.

Last time for stupid dimensions:

Photo:

My oldest childhood best friend passed away very suddenly last week.

Here is the most recent photo I have available of us. Two years ago. She is on the right.

I am so confused with her death, all the questions we have.

If anyone can help, connect with her or the situation, or anything, to help give some clarity on the situation, her perception of reality, (or to validate/correct my gut instincts) some help would be greatly appreciated.

Most selfishly I hope she didn't pass truly believing I'd abandoned her.

Thank you all for any guidance you can provide. Or even just words of comfort. This is very difficult.

i wish a card would work! Unfortunately, radio silence is the way for now. I'd never call him at this point. I just wish there were some things I could tell him right now. It's going to take a long time for us to get back on track.

I am going through a very tough situation with a close friend. We have been very hurtful to each other and for once I know I must keep quiet to let the situation cool. Still, I want him to know that no matter what, I care about him and hope we can reconcile...one day.

This is a really tough situation where I am fighting negativity but have to remain realistic about our challenges in our friendship. I am equally hurt and angry by his actions and words as I am also filled with sadness that our relationship has turned out like this, and love for him as my friend.

I'm just requesting anyone who has the ability to help me in sending him positive/healing vibes, so that our friendship can heal in time, and that our care for each other will find its togetherness again. I hope he knows that I still care about him, despite the confusion and hurt.

Thank you very much. Happy new year to everyone!

That's exactly what I thought. I hope he does actually mature, if for nothing else than his own sake. I knew something felt different this time during our row. I know we both care about each other but at this point I feel my immediate presence in his life is hindering his development and enabling poor habits of his. I've a lot to think about.

Thanks again!

Hi Captain. My best friend and I just had a major breakup. Things have been going well for a long time and then they fell apart very recently. I still love him very much but I cannot handle his manipulation and immaturity, so I have cut him off for the time being. This photo was taken last year, but I hope you are able to get current vibes from it. I definitely need time away from him to be out of my life, but I hope in the future we can reconcile. Can you get anything from this? Will he want real friendship in the future? Does he wish things had turned out differently like I do?

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Thank you so much again, as always.

Good day (evening?) Captain...

This photo was taken two weeks ago after a job interview. I didn't get the job, but I am wondering if you can see anything regarding my career path (anything in the near future?). How can I get out of my own way to get a real career position? Am I looking in the wrong spots?

I am on the left.

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