In asian societies, we would light up some incense sticks, then after some praying to God, group of buddhas, etc according to one's own usual belief, then we would communicate by speaking, yes, speaking as if the spirit is in the room, in very same usual way only much softer .
And if one or two strange small noises [ from furnitures, for examples} occur at most unexpected moments, then that 's it. And don t get excited. This is key.
Say in usual manner like..'so you are here now? I know '. Make sure you say it out.
The period of being together is the length of the incense sticks. With candles, we would hope to see a red glowing 'flower' at the tip If you feel like to talk more, just light up new sticks, then go about doing what you have to, then come back.
While typing this I heard two distinct sounds, one from the heater. I think its my angel cat again !LOL.
Last but not least, take mega vitamins extra as you have to be in GOOD ,CALM state of mind to converse. It s a prerequisite.
One more sound somewhere from the printer area !!!! OMG
I just know it . My cat always know my frequencies, as always
And I d just call out the cat 's name whenever I miss my cat because I m positive that the cat knows
I read somewhere that 'meeting time' does'nt have to be at night' only