You guys are amazing! Thanks so much for your input and your opinions. I love to hear these kinds of stories.
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RE: What should I do now?
Well, I know deep down that he loves me and still cares for me and the same goes for me. We kinda just took everyone else's advice to break up so that he can focus on what he has to do in the military and so that I wouldn't miss out on anything (like chasing my dreams) because I'm stuck waiting for him. At the same time, everywhere I go I'm stuck waiting to hear from him (there's no communication in basic training....at least not to me). It's a weird story but I do regret breaking up with him and I hope to get back together with him...he was just looking out for me when we broke up but now I think it was a stupid decision on both our parts. It's weird, I know.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
The guy I recently dated....whom I believe is my soul mate but had to separate because he went into the military (at least for the time being...hoping to get back together soon), once asked me when we first started dating if I believed in love at first sight. I didn't see anything in him but he told me that he could see my personality before he even knew me and once we started hanging out, it was like we already knew each other and have been best friends our whole lives. Anyway, I do believe in love at first sight and was just curious on everyone else's takes on it! Feel free to disagree as well!
What should I do now?
So I'm stuck in a rut. I am 20 years old and had to move back home to family because I couldn't afford to live where I was living. I had to give up 2 wonderful jobs but now I'm ready to chase my dreams but don't know how. It also doesn't help that I had to break up with my "first true love" (I believe to be my soul mate) because he went into the military....but it's funny because we both didn't want to break up...he just didn't want me to miss out on opportunities in my life because I'm waiting for him. I'm so anxious to hear from him once he gets out of basic training. Can anyone tell me if we will be together again? If he is what I believe he is, my soul mate? And what should I do now or how should I go about chasing my dreams? Any suggestions are most welcomed!