I have to agree with demac. I am also a Gemini woman dealing with a Gemini man and we are so much alike that sometimes it's scary. For one when dealing with a gemini man or woman you will have to learn not to wear your heart on your sleeve. It's not the point that we are being mean or insensitive it's just sometimes at certain moments our reply may come off not exactly the way we intend it to. At times I come off harsh or insensitive and have no clue that I am doing it until someone brings it to my attention. A real mood killer for a Gemini is being too overbearing or overly emotional and I think it goes both ways for a gem man or female. I was recently involved with a Libra man, and it was the worst experience that I've ever had. He was a sweet person, but he smothered me and tried to change my true self and the way I loved, which did nothing but depress me and made me disinterested. Needless to say it ended short and bad.

What I found out by dealing with my Gemini guy was I have to love him the way that I want and don't want to be loved. First thing is your Gemini guy will test your character in the beginning. If you are dear to him he will treat you with respect. This is how you will know if you have a good gemini guy or not, because if he cares about you he will not hurt you intentionally. Second don't wear your heart on your sleeve, because he will be very blunt, but honest with you,but you want this because you never want to wonder what a person is really thinking right? Respect his quiet time, you can hang out together and not necessarily have to discuss every topic under the sun, yes gemini's are usually chatty, but we are also thinkers and can even enjoy your company in silence it's the closeness that really matters. If it seems that he is fussing about every little thing take it with a grain of salt and ignore it if it is small, he may just be having a bad day and using it as a way to vent, if you submit to it, it may become bigger then it really is so choose your battles wisely. And of note I've have dealt with a lot of gemini men, my father is actually a gemini as well, and it is a lot more to their story. Gemini men may try to show that they have a hard exterior but it is all an act, they desire love as much as the other signs it's just that you will have to work hard to capture their heart esp, if they have been hurt in the past. When we first met we clicked, but there were times I felt he was stingy with his affection, until I really paid attention to him, because at times he left me confused. That's when I realized he was more like me then I thought, and under his ruff exterior he is actually a little teddy bear. So with my gem guy I deal more with his actions then his words or his way of expressing his feelings. For one they fear rejection, so if they are unsure of what your reaction will be they will be hesitant. Thus making you the fire starter, lol. I respect his personal space and realized that he is into a lot of activities and have many friends, so if you respect that then they will gladly come around more often willingly and actually enjoy your company. Now when we have our alone time together (it's all about our quality time together, meaning no company and no cell phones, that is our rule when we're together), that's our time when we connect and again you will have to notice signs that he may be giving you, and this is a time when you may have to be more dominant and be like Nike and just do it. So what I've noticed by just observing him is that he loves to be really close to me, so when we're at his place watching t.v. on the couch I'll grab a pillow so he can lay on my lap and I'll rub his head, he loves it. If we're cuddling laying down watching a movie or something I'll caress his stomach (did this by accident) but found it soothes him, they love to be caressed not groped. While sleeping he may toss and turn, to get comfortable so he may not hold you all night, but if he makes an attempt to make any physical body contact, example he may lay really close to you, place his foot on yours or wrap his leg around yours he is feeling you. You just have to read the signs. As far as intimacy Gemini men love a woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to take it, and show him how hot she really is for him, it's a real ego booster for them, but be creative and keep him on his toes. Finally, if you show you Gemini guy that you appreciate the good and bad about him and will still be there, he will show you his softer side and be there for you through thick and thin. and will be your best friend to the end.

That would then make me a Taurus, but I definitely have the gemini trait. I can be stubborn like a Taurus but that's the only characteristic I can say I have. So does this mean that in another 3000 years that the zodiac signs will change again, then I guess that will make me a Cancer in my next life time, lol. Think I'll stick with the traditional method. It fits my personality.

Dalia I also took your test and I found it very interesting as well as fun. I pictured you small/medium built. Health condition I pictured was respiratory (bad cough) possibly from smoking. The location I seen was a very green location open field. Profession I kept picturing police officers something to do with law enforcement. For question five didn't picture anything specific just darkness didn't get anything on cats.

Second test.

Event. Picture I came up with was a baseball field during a big game or something.

Colors: Blue, White and Green.

Picture is of fans jumping up and cheering but like a freeze frame.

Location: seemed to be in a stadium of some sort.

I have also been told that I look younger than my age. There are times when some of my older patients point out certain issues than make a comment oh sweetie your not old enough to know about that subject, then they are surprised to find out that I have a 13 1/2 year old. There are even times when I went to my daughter's jr high school, and the staff looks at me like I'm crazy, even some of her friends thought I was her older sister at times.

But that is also a characteristic of the GEM's.

Also as for the May and June Gemini. I met a Gemini male who I have know for a short period of time, but felt like I've know him forever. I believe he may be my mirror half, same age, sign, Chinese zodiac, humor and personality. Where I may be thinking of something and don't have to say it he just gets it. He's the only person that see's through my tough act and point it out to me. It even get to the point where we give that famous GEM lip curl just opposite sides. The only difference between us is that to some people he can seem mean or insensitive very blunt, but I'm more the nice one and sensitive don't like to hurt people feelings. I guess it's because he is close to the Taurus sign and I'm close to Cancer. Go figure my male best friend is a fellow Gemini. I can be me around him and don't feel like I have to be on, and with him its the same. Any body else found their mirror image? If so what sign are they??

Hello all: I am also a fellow Gemini June 17th a (G.E.M) as I like to refer to us, and I kinda stumbled on this form by accident. Especially when I'm supposed to be cleaning my room at the moment, funny I turned on my computer to listen to my play list while I cleaned, sad to say that I will most likely find something else to do before I engage in what I actually started.

I'm glad to hear that I am not alone with my inner behavior what some people may consider odd but I see as completely normal. I see that astrology may be one main characteristic interest for the G.E.M's as we are completely open minded and intelligent enough not to only understand it but to actually be able to break it down and explain it to others. When I read about my G.E.M characteristic it's like I'm wowed because it is me. I even did a past life reading and it pointed out when I experience certain things that I do as well as why I excel in many subjects or trades that I do, English, Math, Art, Music, Computers, Fashion, Hair, Teaching, Languages (haven't taken any) as well as sports that I do give a shot, even if I don't mainly have an interest in it. I think we can all relate with the cat lady, who owns no cats, lol. Funny about the language barrier or lack of for us. When I was doing my externship at my chosen clinic most of the girls spoke Spanish and on class I must say I couldn't get not because I wasn't smart enough I just became disinterested in it because I couldn't roll my R'sss, lol any way during mutual conversation they would forget and ask me questions in spanish and I would answer them in english, and they were amazed that I understood but what can you say about the fabulous gemini.

I also have to admit that I am a "Jack of all trades, and a master of none" I can basically excel at any choice of occupation that I choose to work in, and I believe that the reason we are so gifted is that we take some of what we learned with us from out past life, and when it's time to learn it again it becomes second nature (no I'm not insane, but what Gemini actually is right?, lol) I find it funny when people thing that I am a mean person and have no feelings, when I believed that I was extra sensitive. I later learned that I can sense other people feelings funny because I work in health care I can tell by looking at someone when they are hurting (mentally not physically) and I can tell when they try to hide it.

But not actually trying to write a book here but I guess it is okay, since we all do it. I should put Arthur on my resume as well, lol. But I will definitely stay posted, you will never know what you can learn with a group for gemini's . BTW Cat lady you ROCK!!! Another example of a Gemini twisted sense of humor. Take care my fellow G.E.M's