I have to agree with demac. I am also a Gemini woman dealing with a Gemini man and we are so much alike that sometimes it's scary. For one when dealing with a gemini man or woman you will have to learn not to wear your heart on your sleeve. It's not the point that we are being mean or insensitive it's just sometimes at certain moments our reply may come off not exactly the way we intend it to. At times I come off harsh or insensitive and have no clue that I am doing it until someone brings it to my attention. A real mood killer for a Gemini is being too overbearing or overly emotional and I think it goes both ways for a gem man or female. I was recently involved with a Libra man, and it was the worst experience that I've ever had. He was a sweet person, but he smothered me and tried to change my true self and the way I loved, which did nothing but depress me and made me disinterested. Needless to say it ended short and bad.
What I found out by dealing with my Gemini guy was I have to love him the way that I want and don't want to be loved. First thing is your Gemini guy will test your character in the beginning. If you are dear to him he will treat you with respect. This is how you will know if you have a good gemini guy or not, because if he cares about you he will not hurt you intentionally. Second don't wear your heart on your sleeve, because he will be very blunt, but honest with you,but you want this because you never want to wonder what a person is really thinking right? Respect his quiet time, you can hang out together and not necessarily have to discuss every topic under the sun, yes gemini's are usually chatty, but we are also thinkers and can even enjoy your company in silence it's the closeness that really matters. If it seems that he is fussing about every little thing take it with a grain of salt and ignore it if it is small, he may just be having a bad day and using it as a way to vent, if you submit to it, it may become bigger then it really is so choose your battles wisely. And of note I've have dealt with a lot of gemini men, my father is actually a gemini as well, and it is a lot more to their story. Gemini men may try to show that they have a hard exterior but it is all an act, they desire love as much as the other signs it's just that you will have to work hard to capture their heart esp, if they have been hurt in the past. When we first met we clicked, but there were times I felt he was stingy with his affection, until I really paid attention to him, because at times he left me confused. That's when I realized he was more like me then I thought, and under his ruff exterior he is actually a little teddy bear. So with my gem guy I deal more with his actions then his words or his way of expressing his feelings. For one they fear rejection, so if they are unsure of what your reaction will be they will be hesitant. Thus making you the fire starter, lol. I respect his personal space and realized that he is into a lot of activities and have many friends, so if you respect that then they will gladly come around more often willingly and actually enjoy your company. Now when we have our alone time together (it's all about our quality time together, meaning no company and no cell phones, that is our rule when we're together), that's our time when we connect and again you will have to notice signs that he may be giving you, and this is a time when you may have to be more dominant and be like Nike and just do it. So what I've noticed by just observing him is that he loves to be really close to me, so when we're at his place watching t.v. on the couch I'll grab a pillow so he can lay on my lap and I'll rub his head, he loves it. If we're cuddling laying down watching a movie or something I'll caress his stomach (did this by accident) but found it soothes him, they love to be caressed not groped. While sleeping he may toss and turn, to get comfortable so he may not hold you all night, but if he makes an attempt to make any physical body contact, example he may lay really close to you, place his foot on yours or wrap his leg around yours he is feeling you. You just have to read the signs. As far as intimacy Gemini men love a woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to take it, and show him how hot she really is for him, it's a real ego booster for them, but be creative and keep him on his toes. Finally, if you show you Gemini guy that you appreciate the good and bad about him and will still be there, he will show you his softer side and be there for you through thick and thin. and will be your best friend to the end.