OMG... I am sitting here with my mouth open in sheer amazement. I finally spoke to my Virgo @ my confusion. He said he thought I knew how he felt but since I needed to hear it that he is very much into me and has been for a long time. Just as you said, I have been compartmentalized. He is currently in a relationship. However, he "enjoys being with me. I help him forget the stress in his life"... in other words I'm a friend with benefits. So I am going to keep this relationship on a friendship basis only. I don't think I am in love with him but he is definitely beginning to pull on my heart strings. If I find it too hard to be only friends, I will have to let it go. I thank you sooooooo much for your insight. You are good, very good.

J 9/8/70

MsSunny

You seem to know the Virgo male so well. I wish you could help me with my situation. It is really beginning to drive me crazy.

thx MsSunny. most helpful information.

I want to confront him soooo badly but then I say to myself what will that accomplish. He probably would avoid the issue anyway. I am beginning to feel like just forgetting about it and the whole friendship. Friends don't let friends suffer when they can help it.

The more I experience and read up on Virgo men, the more confused I get. They seem to be the masters of mind games. Does there ever come a time when they say what they mean, and mean what they say?

@ Aries... that makes complete sense. I'm sure the truth would hurt, but it can't hurt more than the lying. And there have been instances before when he has been brutal but I handled it. That's what's so confusing, why change now? why not just be honest especially when I suggested we stay simply friends. That was his out, but instead of taking it, he starts saying where did that come from. I told him I'm just reading between the lines and he said that well you are reading it totally wrong. I know he has some other personal issues going on in his life but that doesn't give him the right to play with my emotions.

@ Himbelee.... you are absolutely right. The attraction is unbearable. I am trying my best to play it cool but I'd be lying if I said it is easy.

Thank you everyone.... your help is greatly appreciated

thx. I thought so but was just hoping that after so many years he could just be honest with me. I appreciate the insight.

I've known this Virgo man most of my life. We are very good friends. Years ago we had a little fling but then went on our own ways. Now here it is 20 years later and we meet again. Amazingly it was as if we never lost contact. We recently were intimate weekend. We both said we enjoyed ourselves then went back to our seperate lives. My problem is this... I am a Pisces and am very emotional. I had the sense that he was telling me what I wanted to hear, not what he felt in his heart. Of course he denies it. but he hasn't told me what he feels. I understand that this the nature of a Virgo but you would think after so many years of friendship and honesty, this wouldn't be an issue. I told him that I was going back to being just friends and he seemed offended. He said that I was reading too much into his non-response (he wasn't able to talk freely on the phone at the time). However, once he did have a free moment, he never bothered to respond. Just sent general texts throughout the day. What do I make of it? Is he still interested, or did he lose interest and not want to ruin our friendship by telling me the truth?