Hi there, I've been in your shoes and I hope to add some insight to your reading. I even pulled a card for you asking how you must act towards your ex for the rest of April 2016.
I think the hardest part about your reading is that I don't know the whole picture regarding your relationship, but I will try my best with the cards you've given. I also want you to be aware that no matter the outcome of your situation, you will be in a positive place when everything is all said and done. With the star, tower and three of cups, something will be revealed to you that will give you hope and inspiration. You will feel a sense of exuberance and this could have something to do with your friendships or your community. Anyway, here is what I've interpreted from the cards (I will put my interpretations in brackets):
For my feelings I got the "5 of swords" (Your feeling disharmony and off balance from what has happened with your break-up);
For our relationship foundation I got the "Knight of cups" (I'm seeing that he was quite the romantic when your relationship started or that it started out as a whirlwind romance and moved quite quickly);
For his feelings I got the "5 of cups" (he is feeling disappointment in some way regarding your relationship, now this is tricky because "his feelings" is very general, you could clarify that by being more specific about what his feelings are regarding i.e. his feelings about your relationship or his feelings about the break-up. The more specific the clearer the answer);
For my needs I got the "Hierophant" (You need a traditional relationship where it is not necessarily super romantic but it is reliable and traditional. You need someone who shares those values; a trustworthy, reliable person who is committed to you and the relationship);
Their needs I got the "5 of pentacles" (This one stumped me at first, but I thought about it and he needs an unpredictable relationship. He almost needs to feel rejected in some way or that he needs to feel that the relationship is unstable. Some people need drama to feel excitement in a relationship and some men need to feel like they could lose the woman they are with. I've been with men like this. They sit up and take notice when you don't need them and this relates to the Queen of Wands and I'll tell you why in a bit);
Combined needs I got the "9 of pentacles" (in order for the relationship to work you will need to become self-sufficient. From what I'm seeing from the other cards, he needs a woman who doesn't need him and can take care of her own needs and is committed to fulfilling her own needs; she can take him or leave him. For you, if you start taking care of yourself, you are going to start to feel more balanced and confident and you will start to enjoy being on your own; self-love is so important because you won't need someone else to fill the emptiness you feel inside. You will be more than capable of doing that on your own and therefore you will become less needy in your relationship);
My expectations I got the "7 of cups" (Now, I know you said something about the Star being the wishful thinking card, but I can tell you this, the seven of cups is the "wishful thinking, building castles in the sky" card. You may have had certain expectations about the relationship, possibly because this man was so romantic, but they didn't quite happen they way you had expected);
Their expectations I got the "Queen of wands" (He was expecting a confident, positive woman who didn't need him and was wanted by many. This relates back to the five of pentacles. I've been there and it is so annoying. They want you when they can't have you);
Combined expectations "Temperance" (You were both expecting a balanced, healthy relationship where you just fit together like two peas in a pod; completely compatible);
And as an outcome, (twice) "The star" (I feel that there is hope for the relationship if you are willing to do the work to find serenity within yourself. You need to get your balance and mojo back cause this shit is driving you crazy. Do you have any hobbies? Friends to spend time with?(three of cups would be your girlfriends or the women in your life that make you feel joyful). Do you love walking in nature?(that always balances me and you never know who you will meet or run into on your adventures).
I don't know you or this man, but if I'm reading the cards right, he sounds like he's a little immature in the love department and needs drama in his relationship to stay interested. I guess the question you also need to ask yourself is do you really want to be with someone like that, or do you want the Hierophant? Maybe not as exciting as the knight of cups, but someone who values his relationships and is reliable.
The cool thing about taking care of yourself is that you will find those answers, and you'll find yourself in the process.
P.S. I did a one card reading for you and my question was as follows:
How must Pami619 act towards her ex-boyfriend she mentioned in her forum post for the month of April 2016? = Temperance Reversed.
From what I see, this is telling me that you should try to avoid contacting or spending time with your ex, but you need to do this in a balanced and temperate way. If he contacts you, just remain calm and don't act angry or overly excited. Just calmly let him know that you're not looking to be in a relationship with him at this time in your life.
I hope I've helped and I wish you all the best! XOX