Greetings all you Sagitarians! I am a Gemini lady who's mate is a Sag. I am looking for some insight to my relationship with him. I have been with him for a very long time, but we are not on the same page with anything, other than we both love travel( but not together) and nice restaurants. Ha! There's seems to be a lack of caring and concern on his part for anything that is important to me. It's like I am just a 'walk on' in his play. I don't know where I fit in. He is the important one... I am just here for whatever. Is that normal??? This just isn't 'OK' for most Gemini to live in a shallow relationship, even though many think of us as choosing shallow relationships. So, I wonder if I am just missing something simple here. I would ask him, but it always leads to a fight. He only like to talk about things outside of relationships. , and my chattiness drives him away anyway. Some insight from any of you male Sags would be so helpful.
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Hi mrchick, Yes I am chatty to anyone who will listen, and I really try to be friendly and chatty with other women especially... but in all honestly, it doesn't matter to me what a person's gender is. I just love people and I love to meet new people. But I guess when a woman is chatty and will chat to anyone... it often leads to forming friendships with opposite sex even if the intention was to go out and meet people of the same gender. LOL! But I really long for close friendships with women too.... but I am so dreadfully honest maybe I scare them all away.
You know... My closest girlfriend is my dear mother! She is a sweetheart and a true friend... and she is a Libra. I get along with Libras... but for some reason scorpios are drawn to me. I don't quite know why that is.... hmmmmm
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Oh and I forgot to add... like several of the Gemini ladies here, I tend to form deeper friendships with males than I do with females friends. All my past and present female aquaintances seem to just snub me most of the time and it is hurtful... so I tend to seek refuge in guys instead.... and note, these are NOT sexual freindships just incase some were wondering. LOL! But the weird thing is I am married to a guy who just doesn't get me at all... he never has! He can't stand it when I open my mouth to talk to him ... he runs the other way... not much of a freind to me at all really.. which is another reason I seek out male buddies. But I really want to cultivate friendships with women too, but it just isn't easy to maintain friendships with women.
Sorry for all my typos... I am a terrible typist and a bit dyslexic.
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Hi all... I am new to this forum and just wanted to say, Wow! I completely relate to everything you all have described here Amazing! It's so great to see their are people out there who have had the same experiences as a Gemini.
Like redheadedgemini, I also have a gemini daugther, who is the only other gemini in my entire family on all sides going back several decades. I have also been told all my life that I look 15 to 20 years younger than my age, and I have friends of all ages. Communication and creating harmony are my hearts desire for every situation. I deeply care for people and get myself turned inside out when anyone I even remotely know is not happy. Motivational speaking is something I have always secretly wanted to do... but instead I am a singer-songwriter-recording artist.... which I love just as much as talking. But I am still all over the place seeking out what I want to do with my life. Ha!
Someone else here mentioned that they were a poster child for ADD. Oh yes! And now I am more ADD than ever. I truely cannot stay on one project for more than 15 minutes! That's why I am here typing this at this moment instead of finishing what I started 15 minutes ago. I have so many projects going at once I get really scattered.
Also I noticed that someone here mentioned the problem of people thinking we are insincere. This has always been a problem for me and it has caused me great grief to have people completely misunderstand me and see me as shallow when I am so very deep in my thinking that I sometimes can't find my way back out of my abyss I've created. People see me as cool and aloof and uncommitted... but the problem is I am committted to so many things I cannot just choose one thing to care about to give myself completely to, which is also the reason I never finish anything... which leads to the reason I am 'Jack of all trades and master of none"... even in my recording studio!
I also see all sides of every situation... literally, and cannot comitt to one side because of this. My grown children see me as completely fickle.. but I beg to differ!
I believe very deeply in God the Creator of this universe... but I don't believe that church is the place to find God. I believe we have to look within for our God-given guidence or voice. I won't conform to everything that is sent down the pipes to us via the governments and believe we have been fed a lot of bull for ages! I am intent on bringing all people, races and creeds together on the same page and cannot understand why most people see the differences when I see what we all has a human race have in common.
OK... that's enough of my story.... it was great to find this place and I hope to share in some converstaion soon.