HI all. I haven't read all 12 pages of this thread, but all I can add is "welcome to the insanity that's loving a Gemini". Trying to make any sense of it is what initially brought me to this forum. I've learned a lot in the last year and done a lot of things Wrong and a lot of things 'wrong', but he's back, even though we aren't 'together' as I'd like to be, things are working that direction. I've given him support and freedom - and he came back. Will he stay? I don't know. But I do think if he leaves again, he'll come back again.

I know now that's his nature and that while he can make choices within that framework, I can't expect him live happily if he's living against his nature. So the choice is mine to accept his hot/cold phases - or not. As a Scorpio, it's doubly hard for me to deal with, but for now, I am trying.

It's a common scam through the internet dating scene. If he doesn't ask you to buy his plane ticket, he will call from somewhere in between and say his wallet has been stolen, you need to wire money, etc. - or - it could be someone wanting to immigrate. I believe that if someone comes here and get's married, it's much easier to get to stay than going through the proper channels. I would be extremely cautious with this guy.

Thanks!

So all I need is your birthday and birthmonth...

would love to know this. for a love relationship.

my birthday and month is november 3rd

So to answer your question, yeah..these things happened. Mercury Retrogrades is all about giving thoughts on past relationships and decide which one to keep and which one to let go.

ah! Hahaha. That answers the question in the back of my head. ...over the last couple of weeks, I've been contacted by several different guys who I'm no longer talking to or considering going out with.

I know when I first met him he had not been in a relationship or even "been" with anyone for almost a yr and a half. I don't think really that he "floats" between

i have the same feeling about mine. I think he 'wants' (and acts like) he's a whorehound but I don't see that in his real-life actions or in his heart.

He has a libra moon, I'm not sure about his rising sign, I think it's gem, so he would have a double dose of it.

It is possible for a Gemini to be true in a relationship. We were together for a year and although he talked to whole time about other women, he didn't actually go there. He is deeper and stronger and has stronger feelings than what I'm reading about most Gem's.

I know my Scorp intensity and possessiveness are a lot of what drove him away and i have to be able to temper that.. The tarot keeps telling me to be patient and to follow my heart, also that he is following his heart and that he's having a breakthrough.

So I'll continue waiting as long as the universe needs me to.

remained friendly. In fact we had lunch last week, and I felt that there was still a very strong connection between us. Unfortunately, when I brought that up to him, he shut down and said he "just wants to be friends." We had an amazing intimate connection, physically, and emotionally. I think it was just too intense for him. He gave me a whole bunch of mixed messages last week,

This is identical to what we're going through.

its a lot to take on so i dont anymore really.. she just dont get me. she either as i said, gets defensive or totally dont understand and gets frustrated or acts like im stupid or totally weird for thinking that way or what ever. there is a definite block of the meeting of the minds there. i dont remember it

OH! That's terrible. I can well imagine, I had an awful time trying to talk to my libra ex- about anything. It's one of the things I love most about my Gem, is the talking about anything/everything, delving deep into ideas and turning them over and looking underneath and inside out.

I'm thankful for my health and my wealth, that I have my farm, my job, my family and friends. I have a good life and a good future. I'm thankful that I was given the support I needed to find the strength to make changes in my life last year that have been needed for a long time and I'm thankful for a wonderful little bit of conversation I had today. Life is good.

rooster, I'm sorry to hear of your loss.