I am just getting back into reading again after many years and am having some difficulty in comprehending a few things. The problem I am stumbling upon is that I am continually receiving "negative cards" such as the 9 of swords in positions in spreads that are supposed to be things that will help, or things that will guide you, or cause improvement.
It is hard to read a sense of despair, loss, etc. as being something helpful, or at least for me it currently is?
I might add that at this point one of the msjor issues concerned is relationships, which tends to be spoken of regardless of whether it is asked about or not.
Would anyone be willing to offer a little insight?
Thank you in advance.