I know it can be hard to understand but Gemini's are some of the most private people although we appear to be extraverts. It takes decades for us to express whats really inside for fear that our other side won't like it or our weakness could potentially be used against us. We are our hardest critics...even the ones that appear to have the most confidence is always torn within. Take nothing personally with him as it is just hard for us to make a decision, even about what to eat for dinner without over-analyzing it. This habit to analyze ever decision that we make during the day usually makes us last minute and I am sure you know the rest!