I could not agree more, reading the comments on this forum has made me feel better about myself. I was with a Gemini man for 12 years, of which we were married for 7. In short at first it was good, we would spend night after night talking until the early hours, then after 9 months he dumped me, then after another few months he decided he could not live without me so we got back together , after a while he then started a relationship with a former girl friend so I threathened to kick him out but he decided he wanted me and not her, then a couple of years later he did the same but when I found out he begged me to let him stay and we worked though it and got married the year after. Gemini's cannot cope with the real world and when ever we tried to discuss money, or anything serious he would clam up. The affection had long gone and regardless how hard you may try it is like banging your head against a brick wall, and it was as if I had to ask permission just for a kiss and for anything else it was as if I should count myself very lucky. Gemini's always think that the grass is greener on the other side and when life gets difficult they get bored and start imagining that if they were somewhere else or with someone else there would be fun again. They cannot cope with anything confuntational. I eventually plucked up the courage and kicked him out a few weeks ago, yes it hurts but I realise now that there is so much more to life than what a Gemini male does not have to offer. Like 4ofus says beware of the mid life crisis. If he is losing interest I would just count your losses and move on, you CANNOT change a Gemini male.

I would not normally participate in forums but the title caught my eye and after reading the comments I thought it only fair to warm other what their future could be like if they try to hang in there.