Sandran712>>I never tell I guy I like them...Because..they may be already involved and what's the point of him knowing my feelings.Unless he makes mention he has feelings for me.I will decide then if it's worth the aggravation.In the meantime.I keep my feelings to myself.
TaurusGeminiMia>>> LOL...spoken like a true Cancer. Perhaps Cancer should be a clam? not a crab???...j./k
lawdawg>>>I still go back to the same mentality, why are Cancer men the dorminate feature of these forums? Is it because they are worst partners than Aries, Pisces, Sag., or Leo. And just to mention it those signs are still available.
TaurusGeminiMia>>> I think the reason Cancer men are the dominant feature of this forum is that (if you read without the drama involved) Cancer men are a canundrum. We love them and yet they mistify us ...and by us I mean ANY other sign including Cancer.
As for myself...I have not fallen out of love for the Cancer man I spoke of earlier in this thread. I have just decided that after 3 years of ambivilance, we are simply friends. I would totally move forward if he ever got up the nerve, but I doubt he will ever change, and thats what attracted me to him in the first place...he is what he is...and i can not fault him for that..but just love him in a complicated and unconditional way. If only I could find another Cancer man who lived closer to me and had a little more 'hutzpah' in allowing himself to be loved and loving me. Ah well...time will tell what happens next.
I believe that we sometimes expect too much of the other person (Cancerian or otherwise) when it comes to falling in love. I believe we all have ideas of what the other person 'ought' to be and not allowing them to be themselves and THEN determining if they are the right 'fit' for us. We sometimes through our own insecurities in the mix...the "i cant go a day without him/her" ....I mean THINK about it...you have gone all this time in your lives without them..whats a day or two? Love isnt perfect, neither are relationships...but love can endure all things as in the Bible scripture (1Cor.13:4-8). The thing we need to figure out is how true is the love we have to give? not how true is the love we are getting...that we can figure out when we know ourselves and are honest with ourselves and with the other party.
I believe you all have the power to love deeply and dearly and honestly. But with power comes responsibility. So trust in yourselves and think long and deep in what you want....then go after it.
I wish you all many blessing and