Hello~

Thank you for your insight. It is just something I have noticed that has been troubling me for sometime. I like to have positive relationships, especially with people I respect (and I generally respect my Scorpio co-workers etc. ) so, having these type of awkward interactions with male Scorpios for all these years has cause me to feel a little put out.

thanks

~taurusdreamer

Hello Vistali,

It is sort of difficult to say with an Aquarius. As far as getting him to express his feelings is concerned, he first needs to admit he has them. If you have known each other 5 years, and have spoken to him before about being his girlfriend, then maybe hold back a bit.

With your chart you are probably very charismatic and charming-- I'm sure there are many men who would wish to be with you. Perhaps you should pull back from him and see how you feel around other people. Maybe, if you don't already, keep a journal for him only. Write how he you feel about him. List the positive and the negative, and perhaps feelings associated with him (i,e, do you feel happiness and euphoria throughout the day in relation to him, or do you feel anxiety and confusion, things like that) . Also, any dreams you may have with him and what you think they symbolize.

This would effectively accomplish several things:

1). It would allow you to see how you feel with him in comparison to other people.

2). It would give you some space to evaluate your own feelings.

2). It would make him miss you. Aquarius tend to want what moves is far from them (because they have such a fear of being closed in). If you still want to be around him, and he wishes to be around you, this may be a good break. BUT, if he does change his mind after you are apart, don't go right back to him.

As Taurus women we tend to always be available and loyal to people, and as a result are often unappreciated. What very few people realize is how deeply Taurus actually feel things. Our polar sign is Scorpio--one of the most emotional and passionate signs in the zodiac. Taurus is often seen as Scorpio's opposite, and therefore not considered to be as emotional or passionate (dependable, unmovable, solid). This is not the case: rather, Taurus will submerge their emotions deep within (until boiling point).

Because you have double water, you are even more sensitive then a regular Taurus. It is important that if you are with a partner, they are able to accommodate your emotional needs.

Keeping a journal or interacting with others may allow for some new input in regard to your relationship.

If you like , I could try and do a tarot reading for you in regard to relationship, although I am not sure how good it would be. Just let me know

all the best,

taurusdreamer

Hello Vistali,

Well, to properly know a connection, the birth times of both people usually helps a lot, because it can show connections that may not show in the immediate chart. However:

Him: Sun: Aq Moon:Le-Vg* Mercury: Aq Venus:Pi Mars: Vg

You: Sun: Ta Moon:Le-Vg* Mercury:Ta Pi/Pi

*both your and his moon are cusping either Leo or Virgo. My moon is the same--(I am a taurus with virgo moon. but, it was time dependent).

In any case, one reason you feel such a connection with him is because you both might share the same moon sign. This give a feeling of immediate emotional connection. You may feel at home with him, and it may even be hard to discern your feelings from his. His mars is in Virgo, and yours is in Pisces. Virgo and Pisces are opposite signs, so you probably felt immediately drawn to him in that respect as well. To make your connection even stronger, you both share Venus in Pisces as well. All in all, it would be hard for even a level headed double Taurus to resist a relationship like this.

The difficulty lies perhaps in the fact that he is an an Aquarius and you are a Taurus, and that he is much older. Aquarius and Taurus can get along, despite the fact that according they seem like opposed signs (I get along with many Aquarius and my chart is similar to yours in several places). However, Aquarius and Taurus are both fixed signs; this means that once you get your minds set, it will be near impossible to change them. Aquarius even more so than Taurus, because they make their minds up quicker.

As far as what is causing you to feel you love him/lacking control: As I mentioned, the three pivotal planets for relationships (moon, venus, and mars) all share a direct connection with his. The fact that you are mars in Pisces means that you are even more inclined towards feelings of overwhelming love. Deep inside you are a very romantic person. His age difference means that should be have feelings for you, it will be easier for him to affect or suggest things to you. Your chart is more astrologically passive than his, and in fact you may be more receptive of his feelings than your own. Aquarius is a masculine sign, Taurus a feminine one. Your double Pisces makes you even more passive/receptive than the average Taurus female. What may in fact be happening is that you are feeling his unexpressed emotion (Aquarius tend to disassociate with their feelings; so he may not even realize this himself. It may be a subconscious transfer)

You two have a definite connection. Whether it is positive or negative depends on the complete chart and how you two relate to each other. It may help to try and discuss this with him. However, be careful about making him feel closed in. Aquarius are very independent, and it doesn't take much for them to feel like someone is being over possessive.

Sorry, this is really long winded but I hope it helps a bit.

~taurusdreamer

Hello SpanishRose,

Good luck with that! Hopefully you will be able clear the apartment so that you can have peace. In the past this has helped us when we have encountered similar situations. Sometimes ringing bells can clear out negative energy etc. as well.

Also, having someone come in who knows how to exorcise/investigate like Shuabby said would be good too! We've never done that before-- didn't even realize it could be done!!!

Best of luck.,

~taurusdreamer

Hello Captain and LivingonaPrayer (it is nice to meet you too! Thanks ),

Thank you for your responses. I wasn't aware that these traits of Scorpio men would apply to casual/working relationships as well. I guess I will just grin and bear it. I do wish there was a way to have smoother relations, but I guess that will just have to come with time.

Thanks again,

~taurusdreamer

Hello SpanishRose~

I am not sure how to do a reading, but for psychic protection have you thought about washing the walls with lavender, rosemary, or sage aromatherapy? Burning sage may also help; and sprinkling salt around the corners of the house? Sometimes this helps clean the aura of the home. This helps us sometimes when we feel creeping around our home.

~taurusdreamer

Hello Everyone,

I am a taurus woman with a predominately earth chart (with the exception of some fire and only one air--- no water is in my chart at all, although i do have a strong neptune/moon influence that dominates my chart).

I have noticed that I tend to have awkward interactions with all scorpio men and was wondering what caused it.

Generally, when meeting scorpio women associates etc. for the first time, we get a long immediately and become friends or a least good acquaintances.

However, whenever I met a scorpio man, without exception, a strange semi hostile hot/cold type of interaction begins that baffles me to no end. It usually involves him avoiding me, or ignoring me to the point of hostility. Even if not hostile, there is this feeling of hedging. However, (once again without exception) there will points at which a scorpio male associate of mine and i will interact and have discussion. During this time, the discussions are usually very intense, but positive- and generally either relate to an interest we share mutually, or something that is a personal interest or hobby of his. After interacting in a highly energetic involved conversation, we will part ways on more or less positive terms (i feel). But the next time I see them they revert to their previous near hostile behavior--until yet again we have some sort of interaction with him discussing something (usually initiating or at least being more expressive in the conversation). And the cycle continues. It makes working/friendship etc. difficult, because I always feel like they dislike me strongly for reasons I can't discern.

This is a little baffling for me, because of how well I generally get along with scorpio women (i don't think i've ever had a negative interaction with scorpio woman. if so, very, very rarely).

Is it just me? Or is this just a difference between the genders?

thanks,

~taurusdreamer

Hello,!

New member here. I am a taurus w/ virgo moon. Mostly earth-chart.

Looking forward to participating!

~taurusdreams