So as you can guess i am a taurus female. Relationships have been pretty much non existant for a long time. My last serious realtionship was 6 years ago with a Scorpio we dated for 1 year then second year was a complicated mess. It's true what they say about Taurus/scorpio relationships. Since then i have basically been single until now. I have been reading horoscopes and they all pretty much say this year is the year for taurus and starting new relationships. Has anyone found this to be true?

Well it has been true for me, however this year i have gone through a total of 3 relationships, 2 of which were in the past 4 months. It also seems like i'm making my way through the zodiac. 1st guy was a Cap, that lasted 1 month. The second also a Cap (1 month), the 3rd a libra (2 months; technically 1 month he was away for the second) and recently just ended a short fling with a Leo.

What these guys have in common is the way they ended it...by ignoring me, no contact and moving onto a new girl, none of them had the balls to say this is not working. The Leo was flirting with me for weeks (i wanted nothing to do with him as things had just ended with the Libra. But over halloween against my better judgement (a lot of alcohol) i went home with him, which ordinarily i would not do. I have not heard from him since and thanks to facebook i have discovered that he is actually married! So currently i am having a FML moment.Not sure what i'm doing wrong, why i keep attracting these men. I'm level headed, not demanding (which bothers me because i see all these men smitten with girls who are clingy, cookiemonstery and over possessive).

Anyway i just needed to vent, I am a typical taurus and have found solace in this forum from posts reminding me that i am a taurus, i am being true to myself, this is who i am, i can't change that. Being used and tossed aside time again does take it's toll. Yes i suffer in silence and pretend to the world it does not bother me, but it really does, which i guess is why i decided to share my tale of woe.

Thank you both for your advice.

Taurus7- you are right my gut is telling me that i should move on, because it's the beginning stages and if he is already like this now, how will he be later. The first few months are meant to be blissful, yet it's not.

Marmelade - I'm working on being upfront because in past relationships i have kept things to myself which ended up making me really unhappy, i vowed to change that. Yes i will talk to him and if he doesn't like it, then yeah, it just was not meant to be.

Thank you very much.

I am a taurus girl just started dating a libra man. We've been dating a month. It started out great with romantic dates and messages, but after 2 weeks the messages became few and far between as did the dates. When i do see him he talks about how much he likes me and wants to be with me (he even said he was falling for me), but then he goes a week without messaging and then come weekend he wants to meet up. So far i have seen him once every weekend and we're intimate and then he leaves and i don't hear from him again for a week. I will message him in the week and sometimes he replies and sometimes he doesn't.

We have just had the talk and decided to make our relationship official, he brought it up. He is going away for a month and i can't help thinking he did this so that i wouldn't meet another guy.

I get the feeling he is not that into me and he's using me. I guess what i'm saying is i am feeling really insecure because i like him a lot, i would like this to work, but i don't want to hang around if he's not that into me

When i do see him, he's so sweet and loving and he says wonderful things but i get the feeling there is no sincerity behind his words and that he's only saying them to keep me happy. but for me actions speak louder than words, and he is not following through on his words. So i am confused does he like me, or is he having fun to pass the time. I want to tell him these things but i'm scared it will come across as me being clingy (which i know libras hate). Please help, what should i do, how do i proceed?

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Thank you very much for your input. Saying that i am glad there is someone who is going through the same thing as me is not quite the right way of saying it, but thank you for letting me know that there is someone in the same boat and that it's not just me.

You are right it is frustrating but after much slef reflection the past few weeks i have come to the conclusion that i am only hurting myself by getting worked up about everything. I guess i have decided to let it be and come what may. I am a big believer in if it's meant to be then it will happen, i have just been impatient. So it may take years but what we are looking for will come, perhaps it will be sooner than we think.

Until then i am going to let the good things in my life in, i'm not going to let them pass me by as i have done over these years. Hopefully with while letting in some of that goodness something else will roam in

Again thank your for advice and i hope things will get better for you to in time.

Thank you very much for your advice Junemoon26. I know that is what i should do, as that is what i have been telling myself up until now. I think i lost sight of it, and will definately take your advice. I have gone through periods of complete change, taken up different hobbies, but for some reason i was not feeling it, not sure if that makes sense. I have been travelling alone to different countries in an attempt to find what truely makes me happy, but after reading your comment, i may be doing it for the wrong reasons. i think i have told myself that i'm doing to explore different places and myself, which is true it has been and still is a great experience, but i may also be running away from my problems. Not really problems, but running away from delving deeper into myself. But i will definately take your advise to heart.

Thank you again, it was great to get another perspective.

Thank you very much for your advice Junemoon26. I know that is what i should do, as that is what i have been telling myself up until now. I think i lost sight of it, and will definately take your advice. I have gone through periods of complete change, taken up different hobbies, but for some reason i was not feeling it, not sure if that makes sense. I have been travelling alone to different countries in an attempt to find what truely makes me happy, but after reading your comment, i may be doing it for the wrong reasons. i think i have told myself that i'm doing to explore different places and myself, which is true it has been and still is a great experience, but i may also be running away from my problems. Not really problems, but running away from delving deeper into myself. But i will definately take your advise to heart.

Thank you again, it was great to get another perspective.

I seem to be going through an emotional dip i would like to say it's only for the moment, but i feel like it has been for the past 5 years. My mian problem is that i can't seem to het involved in relationships, i have had a total of three. one long term (a year) and the others span a total of two months, my most recent lasted 2 weeks. My friends keep tellling me i'm gorgeous, a great girl with a great persoanlity and i can get any man, but it doesn't feel like that. I seem to always end up getting hurt one way or another. Honestly i'm single more often than not for long periods of up to 2 or three years. I just feel that maybe i'm missing something. maybe i'm looking in the wrong places or expecting something that isn't. I have always been the third wheel with my friends and their boyfriends and when it ends they manage to find some else with ease, and i'm still on the solo train. Am i doing something wrong?

On another note when i am in a relationship because i have been hurt so often i enter it fearing it will end, i know that is not healthy. Maybe the issue is i fear it, i don't know. The one relationhip failed because i didn't open up enough, i didn't talk about my feelings. So i changed that and became more open, but that didn't work either. I am at a complete loss. As a result i tend to emotionally eat, and yes i am slightly over weight.

I sometimes get the feeling, more so now, that something is out of sync. that my energy is all over the place, like i'm fightiing some kind of emotional or karmic battle that i have no idea how to win. It just seems to be getting worse. To summarise my essay (sorry) i have been feeling lost the past 5 years. I always had a clear direction, i always planned, i had a plan A,B and C and i knew where i was going in both life and love. Since then the road seems to have disappeared and i feel like i'm stumbling through the dark without any plans at all.

Sorry for my ramblings but i felt like i really needed to talk to someone and get advice. So any advice would be appreciated.

I'm a taurus May 15 1984.

Thanks in advance.

Not sure if i am the other one of the new members mentioned, but I would like to say thanks anyway. I have started a thread and everyone has been more than friendly and helpful. Much appreciated

Thanks all.

I have to say i am very intrigued by the scorpio man, i think that has to do with them being mysterious and holding their cards close. Although we are zodiac opposites (some say it's a perfect match other say a match doomed to fail) i feel like he gets me better than any other sign, we seemed to have some kind of mutual understanding. Anyway thanks i will take your advice.

Thanks for your advice Asia118X, it is really helpful.

I just wish i was smart enough to pick up on the signs because he blows hot and cold all the time, so it's really confusing. For example one day he will send a long email about how he is doing and his family, and the next it would be a one liner. I suppose the distance doesn't help either as we are currently living in different countries. I guess apart of me feels that he has had all this time and that if he hasn't done anything by now he probably wont.

Then again as you said only time will tell.

Thanks again