Posts made by taurus1979

Well my pisces just broke things off me with me as well. He's been getting upset over minor things lately. I just plan on giving my fish time to see if he swims back. Normally pisces don't stay away very long. Keep yourself occupied. I know it's easier said than done. Good Luck,

Pisces0301 - The information you have given has been very accurate. He's told me in the past he doesn't like confrontation & that at times he viewed me as confrontational. He also doesn't like me asking questions.

As far a Taurus, we're very loving, dedicated and loyal people. However, we should never be betrayed or crossed. If that happens we can cut you out of our lives as if we never met you, except when we're in love. We can be very forgiving but things may not ever be quite the same. Even in love we will only give you so many chances, 2nd is pretty much guaranteed (everyone makes mistakes)...after we put you through the ringer, but a 3rd chance may never come. Taurus women seem to be good communicators but the men aren't as gifted. He may be able to communicate some things but you have to watch his actions towards you to tell the real story. Also, don't try and talk to him (especially about anything serious) when he's upset or angery. It will only add fuel to the fire. Let the bull settle his horns and then approach him, you will get better results.

I've heard Pisces get bored easily and you have to keep their glass half full. Also, since their fish you have to bate them, can't catch a slippery fish with 2 hands. But any of us who have dated Pisces this is easier said than done. They're very charming individuals. Everytime he does this he hurts me of course, but then it makes me stronger to avoid him...until I get sucked right back in.

He contacted me today. He wasn't his normal lovey dovey self but he was pleasant and I was the same. I'm not about to chase after him. Quite frankly I'm irritated that everytime things don't go his way his storms off like a little kid. I need a man and not a boy. Unless he starts to handle conflicts with maturity I'm leaving. I've given better & I deserve better.

BTW, a day or so after our disagreement he changed his IM screen name to "At war with my inner me" whatever that means, but I know it's about us and his feelings for me.

Thanks for your insight. I asked him was he doing this to hurt me but of course he wasn't going to say yes nor did he respond to my question. I apologized several times to him. I almost felt like I was begging at times which I don't do. It just seems like he always plays the victim and makes everything my fault. He doesn't think we should ever disagree. I don't want to argue with him, I adore him but two imperfect people cannot make a perfect relationship. I don't open up or trust easily which was road block for us in the beggining. I've recently opened up and began to trust my Pisces but now I'm fearful of being hurt. It seems like if we ever disagree he swims away. It's been months since we had and this is how he reacts...I think we both need our space right now. I sent him a really sweet Christmas gift that he won't get until Monday. I'll see how he reacts then.

I dated a Scorpio for over a year and he was very loving faithful & committed. I tried to get him to break up with me by not sleeping with him for 4 months & he still didn't stray. He was like a loyal puppy dog.

I'm a Taurus woman (5/14) dating a Pisces man (3/10). It has been somewhat of a rollercoaster ride but with more ups than downs. We get along great. Initally we had some communication issues but I think that was because we were still learning each other. We had a few arguements. That's the problem. He thinks things should be perfect 100% of the time. If we argue he wants to leave. A few months ago we had a talk about taking our relationship to the next level. He said he was unsure because I pushed him away with some of our past disagreements & he felt that I didn't appreciate him. I was hurt so I decided to give him space. He never let more than a day or 2 pass without contacting me. I slowly let him come back. I didn't want to appear desperate nor open myself up to being hurt again. The past 3 months have been great. I also tell him on several occaions how much I care for him, how much he means to me and how grateful I am for him. I also send him random thoughtful gifts so he knows he's appreciated since he said that was an issue for him before. We've gotten closer than we ever have. Well, this past week I found something that made me a little jealous so I asked him about it. I may have been a little upset but not very much. He got mad. The next day I said that I didn't want to lose what we've accomplished and he agreed. I told him why I felt jealous and that tough he treats me well and makes me feel special I just wanted reassurance. He appeared to have understood and I asked if we were okay and he said we were. I could still tell he was upset. I spoke with him later that evening and there was still some tension there & he told me to stop pushing him away. I told him that that was not my intent and I care for him deeply. The following day I spoke with him and things didn't seem better. I asked him what we were doing and he said he didn't know. I asked him was this how we were leaving things and his response was "I'm not saying that". I told him that I would give him space. Within a half hour he was texting me pictures. So I figured maybe he didn't want space. So the following day I contacted him. I didn't get my normal honey, baby, etc. so I joked about it and he said I was bringing the drama. He was very short and cold with me. He has never treated me that way before. I asked him did he want to work things out he said that he was busy and would talk to me later (he's never been too busy for me before). I told him it was a yes or no and he wouldn't give me an answer. He said that I've lost my privilages because I don't appreciate him and what he's done and I've proven myself to be a typical woman. He said I was the one throwing away what we accomplished together. I was in complete shock. I have been nothing but kind to him and I try to show and tell him time and time again how much I care and appreciate him. I sent him a text saying that I didn't want to lose what we had and asked if he felt the same. He said "we're cool". I sent him a message back asking what that meant? Does that mean we're just friends or are we still on a romantice level? He never responded. I know he got and read the message b/c my phone shows it. He's never ignored me before. Today I get a text from him with our usual good morning (no honey, baby, etc.) and wishing me and my family a Merry Christmas. I replied with the same. I also sent him a text of a pic he wanted and he never responded. What should I do? I really care about him and want to make it work yet I'm not going to chase him. I apologized and told him how I felt. Does he just need space? Will he come back? or is he gone forever and I should just move on? Please help. I'd love to hear from Pisces men as well.

I'm a Taurus woman (5/14) dating a Pisces man (3/10). It has been somewhat of a rollercoaster ride but with more ups than downs. We get along great. Initally we had some communication issues but I think that was because we were still learning each other. We had a few arguements. That's the problem. He thinks things should be perfect 100% of the time. If we argue he wants to leave. A few months ago we had a talk about taking our relationship to the next level. He said he was unsure because I pushed him away with some of our past disagreements & he felt that I didn't appreciate him. I was hurt so I decided to give him space. He never let more than a day or 2 pass without contacting me. I slowly let him come back. I didn't want to appear desperate nor open myself up to being hurt again. The past 3 months have been great. I also tell him on several occaions how much I care for him, how much he means to me and how grateful I am for him. I also send him random thoughtful gifts so he knows he's appreciated since he said that was an issue for him before. We've gotten closer than we ever have. Well, this past week I found something that made me a little jealous so I asked him about it. I may have been a little upset but not very much. He got mad. The next day I said that I didn't want to lose what we've accomplished and he agreed. I told him why I felt jealous and that tough he treats me well and makes me feel special I just wanted reassurance. He appeared to have understood and I asked if we were okay and he said we were. I could still tell he was upset. I spoke with him later that evening and there was still some tension there & he told me to stop pushing him away. I told him that that was not my intent and I care for him deeply. The following day I spoke with him and things didn't seem better. I asked him what we were doing and he said he didn't know. I asked him was this how we were leaving things and his response was "I'm not saying that". I told him that I would give him space. Within a half hour he was texting me pictures. So I figured maybe he didn't want space. So the following day I contacted him. I didn't get my normal honey, baby, etc. so I joked about it and he said I was bringing the drama. He was very short and cold with me. He has never treated me that way before. I asked him did he want to work things out he said that he was busy and would talk to me later (he's never been too busy for me before). I told him it was a yes or no and he wouldn't give me an answer. He said that I've lost my privilages because I don't appreciate him and what he's done and I've proven myself to be a typical woman. He said I was the one throwing away what we accomplished together. I was in complete shock. I have been nothing but kind to him and I try to show and tell him time and time again how much I care and appreciate him. I sent him a text saying that I didn't want to lose what we had and asked if he felt the same. He said "we're cool". I sent him a message back asking what that meant? Does that mean we're just friends or are we still on a romantice level? He never responded. I know he got and read the message b/c my phone shows it. He's never ignored me before. Today I get a text from him with our usual good morning (no honey, baby, etc.) and wishing me and my family a Merry Christmas. I replied with the same. I also sent him a text of a pic he wanted and he never responded. What should I do? I really care about him and want to make it work yet I'm not going to chase him. I apologized and told him how I felt. Does he just need space? Will he come back? or is he gone forever and I should just move on? Please help. I'd love to hear from Pisces men as well.

I'm a Taurus woman (5/14) dating a Pisces man (3/10). It has been somewhat of a rollercoaster ride but with more ups than downs. We get along great. Initally we had some communication issues but I think that was because we were still learning each other. We had a few arguements. That's the problem. He thinks things should be perfect 100% of the time. If we argue he wants to leave. A few months ago we had a talk about taking our relationship to the next level. He said he was unsure because I pushed him away with some of our past disagreements & he felt that I didn't appreciate him. I was hurt so I decided to give him space. He never let more than a day or 2 pass without contacting me. I slowly let him come back. I didn't want to appear desperate nor open myself up to being hurt again. The past 3 months have been great. I also tell him on several occaions how much I care for him, how much he means to me and how grateful I am for him. I also send him random thoughtful gifts so he knows he's appreciated since he said that was an issue for him before. We've gotten closer than we ever have. Well, this past week I found something that made me a little jealous so I asked him about it. I may have been a little upset but not very much. He got mad. The next day I said that I didn't want to lose what we've accomplished and he agreed. I told him why I felt jealous and that tough he treats me well and makes me feel special I just wanted reassurance. He appeared to have understood and I asked if we were okay and he said we were. I could still tell he was upset. I spoke with him later that evening and there was still some tension there & he told me to stop pushing him away. I told him that that was not my intent and I care for him deeply. The following day I spoke with him and things didn't seem better. I asked him what we were doing and he said he didn't know. I asked him was this how we were leaving things and his response was "I'm not saying that". I told him that I would give him space. Within a half hour he was texting me pictures. So I figured maybe he didn't want space. So the following day I contacted him. I didn't get my normal honey, baby, etc. so I joked about it and he said I was bringing the drama. He was very short and cold with me. He has never treated me that way before. I asked him did he want to work things out he said that he was busy and would talk to me later (he's never been too busy for me before). I told him it was a yes or no and he wouldn't give me an answer. He said that I've lost my privilages because I don't appreciate him and what he's done and I've proven myself to be a typical woman. He said I was the one throwing away what we accomplished together. I was in complete shock. I have been nothing but kind to him and I try to show and tell him time and time again how much I care and appreciate him. I sent him a text saying that I didn't want to lose what we had and asked if he felt the same. He said "we're cool". I sent him a message back asking what that meant? Does that mean we're just friends or are we still on a romantice level? He never responded. I know he got and read the message b/c my phone shows it. He's never ignored me before. Today I get a text from him with our usual good morning (no honey, baby, etc.) and wishing me and my family a Merry Christmas. I replied with the same. I also sent him a text of a pic he wanted and he never responded. What should I do? I really care about him and want to make it work yet I'm not going to chase him. I apologized and told him how I felt. Does he just need space? Will he come back? or is he gone forever and I should just move on? Please help. I'd love to hear from Pisces men as well.