Hi Cancerman276,
Yes we met almost 2 yrs ago online. We knew what each other looked like before our first meeting. I think he was open to whatever happened afterwards, i.e friendship, relationship, etc. I was not physically attracted to him in his photos so I thought maybe we would be companions that would try different cuisines/restaurants together since that was our initial common interest. I didn't expect anything more especially since I do not find myself having a connection w/ men often. He was different & interesting, and WEIRD but in an offbeat way. =0) He freaked me out after saying he loved me after a couple of months of knowing him. I asked him in what way did he love me. He couldn't exactly say so I figured as a person he cares about not romantic. So, after a month later, I asked him what his feelings were towards me. He said he does not have romantic feelings for me but then would go back & forth & say he doesn't know. I figured we were bed buddies which I didn't like. Neither of us have been in that situation before. I tried to tell him in person nicely that I didn't feel like wasting my time w/ someone who did not want to be in a relationship w/ me. He was very upset & begged me to stay his friend. I felt very bad b/c I saw his eyes water & was taken aback. I tried another time to not talk to him anymore but he always calls & wants to hang out. This is why I'm confused about this boy. I call him that b/c he has a sort of innocence about him that's endearing. He has been hurt by his previous girlfriends deeply & they have all except one been 3 yrs older than him.