Cancerman276:
I totally agree but my male Cancer friend is so different from other men I've met. He's very understanding, sensitive, thoughtful, & nurturing. I've only met one other man that's nurturing. This trait is not found in the average man. Plus, sex w/ my Cancer lover is more intense than it ever was with my ex!
Hi Cancerman276,
Yes we met almost 2 yrs ago online. We knew what each other looked like before our first meeting. I think he was open to whatever happened afterwards, i.e friendship, relationship, etc. I was not physically attracted to him in his photos so I thought maybe we would be companions that would try different cuisines/restaurants together since that was our initial common interest. I didn't expect anything more especially since I do not find myself having a connection w/ men often. He was different & interesting, and WEIRD but in an offbeat way. =0) He freaked me out after saying he loved me after a couple of months of knowing him. I asked him in what way did he love me. He couldn't exactly say so I figured as a person he cares about not romantic. So, after a month later, I asked him what his feelings were towards me. He said he does not have romantic feelings for me but then would go back & forth & say he doesn't know. I figured we were bed buddies which I didn't like. Neither of us have been in that situation before. I tried to tell him in person nicely that I didn't feel like wasting my time w/ someone who did not want to be in a relationship w/ me. He was very upset & begged me to stay his friend. I felt very bad b/c I saw his eyes water & was taken aback. I tried another time to not talk to him anymore but he always calls & wants to hang out. This is why I'm confused about this boy. I call him that b/c he has a sort of innocence about him that's endearing. He has been hurt by his previous girlfriends deeply & they have all except one been 3 yrs older than him.
Cancerman276:
Ok. Thanks & Good Night!
Cancerman276:
I didn't want to post this but we've been intimate since the beginning. We have known each other for about 1 yr & 9 months now! Time really flies. I will also keep in mind what you said about Cancer men having a lot of female friends.
Cancerman276:
I just turned 34 & my Cancer friend will be 31 in a couple of months.
Cancerman276:
Thanks but I don't expect to be anything more than friends. He's the first male Cancer I've ever met & he confuses me a lot. I wanted to see what other Taurus women are posting about Cancer men. My friend told me (I asked him straight out) if he had any romantic feelings for me after hanging out about 3 months. He said no but his actions are contradictory. He almost always calls me every day & wants to know who I'm with if he knows that I'm out. My ex who was also a Taurus never gave me this much attention. I honestly think my Cancer friend has romantic feelings for me but at the same time he's confused. When he first met me he said he's good at figuring people out but he couldn't figure me out. He also claims he's psychic...lol. Please let me know what your thoughts are about my situation. I am trying to be open to other men's advances but find it difficult b/c I like my Cancer friend and I'm very shy around men. Thanks! =0)
To: Cancerman276
I was looking up Taurus woman/Cancer man compatability on Google & your forum popped up. Although I couldn't read your entire love story it was very romantic & I'm sorry about your ex. I can only relate to you in that you were involved w/ a Taurus. I'm a female Taurus & like my male Cancer friend.