This is excellent, thank you so much. I agree that I have issues related to low self-worth, which impacts other areas of my life as well. My work is important to me, so what you're saying about my desire for independence makes sense.

As for the relationship with the Scorpio guy, I did feel that the emotions were out of synch, as you indicated. However, I wasn't really sure why this was the case, as I really tried to make this relationship work. He still contacts me all the time, and I hope that we might get back together. On his part, he liked me a lot at first, and I find it hard to believe that those feelings have simply vanished. He has had several short relationships since we broke up and always downplays their significance when I talk to him about it. Do you think there is a possibility we could get back together?

Thanks again, you were spot on with your analysis.

I should add that although I've included a few sub-questions here, my main concern is to identify the core problem that might have resulted in my current inability to foster a good relationship and sustain it. Any thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated

Hi, I've experienced a number of poor relationships over the past few years (prior to this my romantic relationships had been quite good). I was wondering if anyone can help me identify the cause of this state of affairs. My DOB is May 4, 1980. There is also one relationship in particular that haunts me... I felt it was full of potential, but ended badly. I still see the guy, but the way we interact is always ambiguous. His DOB is October 31, 1981. I wonder what went wrong (I really have no idea) and whether it can be resolved. Thanks

I've just done a basic 3 card relationship tarot spread for a friend. I think the outcome is good, but I'm not sure what the 1st and 2nd positions indicate:

1. 5 of cups

2. Temperance

3. 2 of cups

Any help with this and how to interpret the spread overall, and to understand the advice therein, would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Ah I see. Thank you very much for your reading and advice. Trouble is I don't really know what broke us up in the first place (he pulled the pin with no explanation). I can try being a good friend, but that's about it.

Yep I did this reading earlier today, before I asked you to do the other one. Thanks for your advice.

Do you mean what the position of the cards represent? I was working on the assumption that 1. is the context, 2. is the advice, and 3. is the outcome.

Thanks so much for your reading. The break up was not very nice, but I still love him. He contacts me nearly every week, for what reason I don't know... It's true I'm still hoping for a reunion. Can you possibly give advice as to what might work, or is it completely fruitless? Thanks again.

Yes, sorry for not giving enough info - it's concerning our current situation and if we'll get back together.

Dear KushikamiKiba,

If you've a spare moment could you please do a reading for me and my ex. My birthday is 4th May 1980 and his is 31st October 1981. Thanks heaps