Hie everyone, let me add a little more detail to the dynamics of our relationship. Me and this guy met at school. He was by no means the kindest or nicest guy. He seemed unable to trust, one minute he was telling me i was the one and the next minute he was telling me he never said he wanted a relationship.
I dont know why but I was infatuated and felt i had to win, it became some sort of challenge for me initially but i developed feelings. We did this for about half a year.
I started getting tired of all the games and drama and the bipolar like behavior. The last straw for me was when we planned to hang out at his house that evening, I go there and he doesnt come down to open the door.
I was so pissed, I went home and an hour later he was calling and texting apologizing profusely saying he had been drunk so he kind of passed out. I didnt pick up or reply. About days later I decided to call him. He has gone to see his parents for the weekend because he was at the same university as me at the time. He didnt pick up, I decided to leave him a text message telling him his behavior was unacceptable and I didnt want to see him anymore or have him in my life.
After that all hell broke lose with this guy, he called me telling me he was busy looking into his family issues, his family was a priority and I was being a b----c. He insulted me and I just hung up the phone on him. We didnt talk or see each other for 6 months. He called January of 2010 to apologize, try and make it up to me and also he said he wanted to go to graduate school, he wanted a stable relationship and I was that girl. I wasnt open or receptive to him so much but we started talking. He seemed like a better person this time and seemed to want a real relationship. He lives in a town 2 hrs away. He tried to arrange for us to see each other but I was never quite receptive to it.
He tried to come see me several times but I was always too busy. The last time we talked he was planning to come see me and thats when we had the big fight. He had already told me he has trust issues with girls and that he had never in his 26 years put himself out for any girl like he had done with me. So to conclude we hadnt seen each other since January of 2010 till April when we had the big fight. He at one point had told me he felt like I was playing games and leading him on since I wouldnt really get into the relationship.
I was scared to and he knew it. I was also sceptical about the distance, if we couldnt make when we still in the same town what about from different towna. I also had trust issues with him after the way he had behaved last time. My sister and my friends dont like him much either, they think he is arrogant and full of himself. He does show that facade but the guy I got to know had the ability to bi humble, kind and quite emotionally intelligent. We also share the same values about certain things.
Sorry its so long but I wanted you guys to know what kind of a relationship we had. It was rather complex already.I am 24 by the way and I am a libra born on September 26th. He is a taurus born on April 20th and he recently turned 27.